A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

Zhang Lan was stunned for a moment, wondering what my opinion was. After thinking about it, Zhang Lan shook his head and said, "I don't have any opinion."

Not having enough knowledge or knowledge is a very sad thing. There are some things that you know are wrong, but you don’t know what to say.

But in fact, Zhang Lan is also impatient to reason with her children when she encounters problems.Once something doesn't make sense, the first reaction is the same unreasonableness.

After coming back this morning, I saw Qin Yongjun criticizing the child. The reason Zhang Lan didn't ask too many questions at that time was that his first thought was not to comment, but to suppress the problem first. If the two of them were separated, there would be no problem. .

Regarding the children's appeals, Zhang Lan doesn't think it's a big deal. If there is a conflict, it can be explained.

Listening to the expert's description, Zhang Lan was a little confused. He felt something was wrong, but it was not as serious as the expert said.

So when Qin Yongjun asked Zhang Lan what his opinion was, Zhang Lan had no opinion.In other words, if you are not aware of some problems, there will be hidden dangers over time.But now that we all know it, just listen to what the experts say and give it a try.

No matter what it is, if parents want their children to go further, it is best to prepare in advance.

It has never been said that children can grow up with enough self-control through parents' encouragement alone.

On the surface, while studying this course or that course, it is better to think about what others are promoting behind their backs and what their requirements are for children.

There is no premise, just stating the conclusion is to be a hooligan.They don't mention the elimination rate behind the scenes, and only promote the luxurious life on the surface.

With the arrival of the Internet tide, information exchange at home and abroad has become more and more convenient.Ordinary people can easily obtain outside information if they are willing.

There are no secrets on the Internet. As long as you are looking for it, the answers are there.

No matter what others say is good, you still have to make your own judgment.Zhang Lan's lack of opinion means that he should listen to the experts first. Now that he knows the problem, there must be a way to implement it before there is a better solution.

But Qin Yongjun didn't see it that way. When he heard Zhang Lan say that he had no opinion, he turned around and said a few polite words to the expert, then asked Lu Qian to send him away.

After Lu Qian came back, Qin Yongjun and Lu Qian said: "Sister Qian, let's go to my grandfather's place later to find someone to ask. I think this person's words are too exaggerated. Where did he get this?"

Lu Qian replied: "In the morning, I felt that Doudou's reaction was different from usual, so I asked someone to consult why this happened, and then someone else recommended it to me."

Lu Qian took out her mobile phone, opened WeChat and pointed at the profile picture on it and said, "I know about psychological education, but I'm not a professional, so I asked someone to ask."

Zhang Lan went over to take a look, thought for a while and said, "I think it's better to ask a teacher. It's too exaggerated to directly ask a psychiatrist and professor."

When she saw Lu Qian's WeChat message, the person she consulted sent her a message from a doctor who was an expert in psychological problems.Zhang Lan sighed inwardly, no wonder it was so serious.

Zhang Lan thought for a while and said to Qin Yongjun: "Don't be so urgent. The other party said it was very serious, but it is just like going to the hospital to see a doctor. If we look at the consequences of the disease from a purely medical point of view, then most people I'm scared to death. People may die if a cold is not treated in time." Qin Yongjun nodded: "I understand, I'll find someone to ask the relevant teacher."

Qin Yongjun started calling people to ask questions. Lu Qian also felt that she might have made a fuss out of a fuss, so she also took her mobile phone to contact teachers with relevant experience.

Zhang Lan reminded Qin Yongjun: "Just contact your friends who have acquaintances at the Normal University and ask the professors in this field."

Qin Yongjun made a few calls, asked experts and professors in the corresponding disciplines, and told them about today's situation.The other party said with a smile: "Your caring behavior is correct, but today's matter is not as serious as you said."

The other party asked about the kindergarten where the child was, and said to Qin Yongjun with a smile: "This is not a big problem. Just pay more attention to it in the future. I don't think that one or two common breaches of appointments will prevent the child from becoming a talent in the future."

After two consultations, one serious and one easy, Qin Yongjun, who was worried, started calling again, but the relevant teachers said it was not a big problem.

But if you consult a psychologist in this area, the other person will be more cautious.

Anyway, it’s okay not to ask, but the more I ask, the more panic I get.Until it was time to get out of school, Qin Yongjun and Lu Qian went to pick up their children, and Zhang Lan prepared meals at home.

When Qin Yongjun took the child's hand and walked into the courtyard, hearing the child's laughter, a smile appeared on Zhang Lan's face.

The meal for the evening was made by Zhang Lan with his merit and blessing of cooking skills. Looking at the two happy children, Zhang Lan and Qin Yongjun beside him said, "Are you relieved now?"

Qin Yongjun nodded and said: "Concern leads to chaos. The main reason is that the person who consulted at the beginning said it was too serious."

Zhang Lan consoled him: "Now that we know the mistakes, we just try our best to improve. It is better to have no books than to believe in books. If you can educate children well by simply following the instructions in the books, how can there be so many things in this world."

After dinner, I sat on the sofa and watched TV. It was more comfortable to watch the news on a large-screen TV. It was most comfortable to lie on the sofa without using my hands.

Unfortunately, not long after, Qin Yongjun turned off the TV with the remote control while Zhang Lan was watching TV, and sent him to the study room.

The daughter wants to practice piano, the son wants to practice calligraphy, and the younger son also has to be watched by someone.

Then Zhang Lan, who was lying on the sofa and making noise in the living room without doing anything, was driven away.

Zhang Lan got up and went into the study. Strangely enough, Zhang Lan also installed a projector and a special home theater sound system in the study, but it was fine for watching movies. He never watched TV or news while lying on the sofa in the living room and watching TV. People feel comfortable and at ease.

(This chapter was overhauled after it was banned. The missing content is probably some complaints about certain aspects, so I’ll leave it at that. Please forgive me. I feel like there’s nothing illegal, but it’s just banned. There will be a part about this in the future. I won’t mention it anymore. I thought it would be difficult to write, but I really didn’t expect to be blocked directly. And I don’t know where this is prohibited. I can’t tell it at all. I will ask the editor later. Look at the blocked words. What is it?) (End of chapter)