Live Broadcast: The post-90s generation is raising a child against their will, which is outrageous

Chapter 215

Coincidentally,

When Liu Ming listened to Lu Yu's words,

while making changes in his life,

there were many people like Liu Ming,

who also deeply felt the hardship of their relatives who were engaged in hard labor for the first time,

and began to change silently,

a phone call,

a text message,

a word of concern,

all made those relatives who were originally tired,

smile with relief as if they had received a gift from heaven.

Perhaps,

this is the influence that a variety show

should have!

Compared to those who invite a few celebrities,

act crazy and tearful in the show,

there is no doubt that

the show "Daily Life of Two Generations Raising Children"

is more meaningful to people who can empathize with them.

At the same time,

Just when many people watched the show,

and things were changing,

the show was still being broadcast live.

Just 20 minutes ago,

the camera had been switched to the 80s dad Chen Aijun.

At that time,

it was already 8 o'clock in the evening,

Chen Aijun had already brought Tiantian back home from the English tutoring institution.

Tiantian had already finished practicing calligraphy,

After practicing calligraphy,

the two of them had a simple dinner,

After dinner,

Tiantian, day after day,

held her exercise book,

and began to lie on the dining table and do exercises.

Compared to the rich nightlife of Lu Yu and Tongtong,

Chen Aijun and Tiantian's nightlife,

is almost the same every day,

one is diligently supervising his daughter's study,

the other is submissive and tries hard to listen to the parents' words...

Chen Aijun and Tiantian's daily life,

boring and tedious,

and because of this,

watching,

on the bullet screen in the live broadcast room,

many viewers began to complain.

"Oh, Chen Aijun is really amazing. He schedules the child so tightly every day. Can Tiantian bear it?"

"When I was six years old, if I was like Tiantian, I would have gone crazy. This child really has no personal time at all..."

"Don't even mention six years old. My nephew is sixteen years old and in high school. He is not as hard-working as Tiantian. Tiantian has nothing to do all day long. He just studies and studies!"

"After getting up in the morning, I have to go to school. After school, I have to go to English tutoring immediately. After English tutoring, I have to come back to practice calligraphy. After practicing calligraphy, I do exercises."

"After finishing the exercises, I go to bed. The next day, I get up and go to school again, and then... OK, the shapeIt's a closed loop!"

"To be honest, I am a 996 office worker, but my life is richer than Tiantian's! (crying with my face covered, jpg)"

"Compared to Tiantian, Tongtong is just like living in a dream kingdom. This program has been live for so many days now. You can see that Tongtong plays differently every day after school!"

"In the final analysis, it's still because of the bad father. Brother Lu is playing with Tongtong in various ways, and Chen Aijun is trying to make Tiantian win at the starting line..."

"Let's not talk about anything else, just today. Tongtong followed his father to Huangmao's place to drink, and now he is a small boss in the supermarket. Isn't this more interesting than playing house?"

"When I was a child, if I could experience being a small boss, I would wake up with a smile in my dreams! ”

“Children should actually go out more often, learn about the outside world, and have more contact with society. This is more helpful to inspire children's thinking than staying at home and doing exercises.”

“Who says it’s not true?”

“Under the leadership of Brother Lu, you can see how good Tongtong is. When she was checking out with customers before, she could calculate the change for small amounts at a glance, and she also knew how to use a calculator for large amounts.”

“When she took out the calculator and pressed it there, I was stunned. She was just like a little adult!”

“If you ask Tiantian to do the same thing, she probably doesn’t even know what a calculator is…”

“Yes, although Tongtong has never done exercises, her ability in mathematics is much better than Tiantian who does exercises every day!”

“So, there is no need to do exercises to educate children. Unfortunately, Chen Aijun doesn’t understand this principle at all! ”

“…”

Watching the screen,

Tiantian studied hard day after day,

the audience in the live broadcast room,

could not help but discuss with emotion.

If it was at the beginning of the program,

perhaps,

the audience would not have any big opinions on Chen Aijun’s educational method,

maybe,

some people would think that,

Chen Aijun is responsible for the child’s future,

and is a good father who knows how to educate children…

But,

I am afraid of comparison in everything.

After watching for so many days,

after comparing all aspects of Tiantian and Tongtong,

the audience really has no interest in Chen Aijun's education.

The gap between the two children is too obvious!

The audience is not blind.

A discerning person can see that

Tongtong is really much better than Tiantian.

Before,

experts once jumped out to refute this point,

saying that for children,

learning comes first.,

Tiantian's efforts paid off,

For example, the exercises,

If you ask Tongtong to do them,

Will Tongtong be able to do them?

The audience was speechless at the time,

and felt that what the experts said made sense,

If we only talk about doing exercises,

Tongtong probably can't compare to Tiantian who does exercises every day...

But who knows,

That night,

Tongtong used his strength,

and staged a slap in the face at the speed of light.

Although she had never done exercises,

she often played cards and bullfighting with her father.

Bullfighting also requires calculations,

and involves addition and subtraction of three-digit numbers.

Tongtong's performance at that time,

really gave the expert a slap in the face,

and also shocked the audience.

No one expected that,

Tongtong, who had never done exercises,

not only knew how to calculate,

but also calculated better, faster, and more accurately than Tiantian.

Tongtong could even do mental arithmetic and get the result of three-digit calculations!

Since that incident,

many viewers also had a complete change of view on Lu Yu's way of raising children!

It turns out that,

educating children does not necessarily have to rely on textbooks and hard study.

Sometimes,

in playing and laughing,

you can also cultivate children to be equally excellent!

If,

that time Tongtong's quick slap in the face only made the audience initially realize that Lu Yu is actually very good at educating children,

then,

Lu Yu's performance in the show,

showed how to educate children to the fullest!

When facing the old man who fell down, facing the embarrassing question of Tongtong asking why he didn't go over to help the old man up,

Lu Yu's answer,

surprised everyone,

and amazed everyone.

He did not give a direct answer,

telling the child whether to help or not,

but gave his own opinion,

letting Tongtong make his own judgment.

When facing the topic of eating one bowl of noodles but being falsely accused of eating two bowls of noodles,

Lu Yu once again explained in a simple and easy-to-understand way,

using the most gentle language,

using the most simple case,

teaching Tongtong how to protect himself when encountering such a problem.

When facing the slander and bullying of others,

Lu Yu also used practical actions,

telling everyone,

as a father,

encountering such a thing,

what to do,

not shrinkingInstead of raising his neck and letting others bully and trample on him,

he rolled up his sleeves and

just went and fucking fought with the other party!

In the face of the gift given by the child,

Lu Yu fulfilled the child's expectant heart with the most sincere joy, and made Tongtong gain great satisfaction and happiness from it...

and so on and so forth...

There are too many examples like this.

Lu Yu seems to have never sat down and educated Tongtong seriously.

However,

his education of Tongtong,

has permeated every aspect of life.

Compared with Chen Aijun's education model,

which wants children to win at the starting line,

Lu Yu seems to value more,

the quality and personal ability of children.

The two completely different educations,

also made the two girls of similar age,

show a gap like a chasm!

In terms of ability,

Tongtong is basically no different from a little adult now. For her, small things like dressing and washing are

just a matter of sprinkling water.

She even helps her father make breakfast and comforts other children in kindergarten.

But what about Tiantian?

She doesn't even have the most basic ability to dress and go to the toilet.

In terms of conversation,

Tongtong's little mouth is like she can't stop talking. She has a strong ability to express herself in language and a rich vocabulary.

When communicating with outsiders,

there is almost no language barrier,

you can completely treat Tongtong,

as an adult to communicate and communicate...

But looking at Tiantian,

in this respect, she is much weaker.

It can only be said that

Tiantian's language expression ability,

can only be regarded as the average level of her age,

she does not drag her peers behind,

but it is definitely not outstanding,

from the way she usually speaks and the words she uses,

you can see this.

She has never said,

like Tongtong, words that can make people's eyes light up,

they are just some basic expressions.

In addition to their abilities and conversation,

the most obvious difference between the two children,

is also reflected in their personalities...

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The two little girls have completely different personalities, which is also the most discussed topic among the audience today.

Different family environments,

different educational methods,

make the personalities of the two children,

completely different.

Tongtong is confident and sunny,Cheerful and lively, her little face is always smiling no matter when you see her.

Her laughter is so magical,

Just listening to her laugh,

you can feel her inner joy and happiness,

you can't help but

raise your mouth with her.

Such a character,

also makes Tongtong brave and strong. Looking around, almost everyone in the kindergarten is her good friend,

even those children who don't go to her kindergarten,

she can make friends with them and

get familiar with them.

Lu Yu's figure is like Tongtong's strongest confidence,

giving her full courage,

let her move forward fearlessly!

Because she knows,

Even if she takes a step in vain,

Even if she occasionally hits a wall,

Dad is still behind her,

Giving her unconditional trust and support!

But,

Looking back at Tiantian...

She has become the exact opposite of Tongtong.

Under Chen Aijun's traditional educational methods of crying poor, suppressing, comparing, nagging, and self-sacrificing,

Tiantian has become inferior and cowardly, timid and sensitive.

She seems to be covered by a layer of dark clouds all the time,

The dark clouds leave a series of restraints on Tiantian,

These restraints,

are all the shadows of Chen Aijun.

Let alone actively making friends with others,

Even when faced with the olive branch of friendship thrown by others,

Tiantian didn't dare to take it,

because she was too inferior and too insecure,

In her mind,

she was like an ugly duckling who was not worthy of being friends with others,

whether she would become a white swan in the future,

no one could say,

but at this moment,

as an ugly duckling,

she was deeply closing her heart because of her identity as an ugly duckling.

As the only father who could give her a strong backing and open her tightly closed heart,

Chen Aijun,

also continued to consume the courage and support that he, as a father,

should give his children again and again.

Let’s not talk about anything else,

Just before, Tiantian was pushed down by another kid in the kindergarten for no reason and hit her head,

If this happened to Lu Yu,

I don’t think Lu Yu would get mad on the spot,

But at least,

seek justice for the child,

This is what he will definitely do.

But looking at Chen Aijun at that time,

He just laughed off the grievances suffered by his daughter, and generously sympathized with his daughter.Not only did the daughter forgive the other party, she also blamed her daughter, saying that she did not know how to tolerate others... Not to mention, Chen Aijun's series of actions that made the audience unable to bear it, under his education, Tiantian had no confidence at all, even the biggest supporter in her mind, became a person that she could not rely on, and could not bring her any sense of security. How could she, a six-year-old child, dare to go to this strange and huge world and take firm steps bravely? Therefore, the audience can really understand and sympathize with Tiantian's personality. It's not Tiantian's fault. If it were any other child, they would probably end up like her.

After comparing these huge differences,

In the live broadcast room,

The audience was talking about it and expressing their feelings.

The two children were like two answers submitted by the father born in the 80s and the father born in the 90s.

After the comparison,

If at this time,

who still supports and believes that,

Chen Aijun's education method is correct,

then I can only say,

as long as you are happy...

Amid the discussion of the audience,

At the same time,