Live Broadcast: The post-90s generation is raising a child against their will, which is outrageous

Actually,

Speaking of which,

It's not just Liu Ming,

Isn't it the same for most people?

I always leave my best temper, greatest patience, and most gentle self to outsiders,

and leave my worst temper and worst self to my family...

Giving gifts is the same,

When giving gifts to outsiders,

I always worry that the things I buy are not high-end enough, and I am afraid that others will dislike them for not being good enough. During festivals, if I don't give gifts to others, I feel that I haven't done my best...

But when it comes to my family,

I just perfunctorily give them a perfunctory attitude,

and I feel that I have done my best. As a filial son, you will be complacent, hold your head high, be thrifty, be self-satisfied, and never worry whether the things you give are expensive or cheap, because no matter how expensive or cheap, your parents will like it very much... In love, there is a saying: Those who are loved are always fearless, and those who are not loved are always cautious... This sentence is also applicable in dealing with people. Compared with trying their best to please those outsiders, the thoughts spent on outsiders, many people spend very little on their loved ones. When thinking of this, Liu Ming, who was holding the bottle of wine, felt even more ashamed and guilty.

And just at this moment,

his father's words suddenly woke him up from his emotions.

"Son, what are you daydreaming about?"

"Come on, pour a glass for your mother too!"

"When you went to buy wine just now, your mother said that she was happy today and wanted to drink with us!"

"Haha, but don't pour her too much, just a little bit will do!"

"Just let her taste it!"

"..."

his father's words,

brought Liu Ming back to his senses, and then he was stunned for a moment.

What?

mother wants to drink too?

Liu Ming looked at his mother in astonishment, and indeed saw his mother nodded slightly,

"Drink some!"

"You two have drunk, if you two get drunk later, I don't want to serve you!"

"So, I have to drink some too!"

"When the time comes, you will be drunk, and I will be drunk too, and no one will need to serve anyone!"

"..."

Liu Ming's mother's teasing,

caused Liu Ming's father to laugh,

At the same time,

Liu Ming was even more surprised.

Since he could remember,

he had never seen his mother drink a drop of alcohol,

to describe his mother as a teetotaler,

absolutely not an exaggeration!

But today...

She actually wanted to take the initiative to drink with me and my father...

No matter how stupid Liu Ming was,

he also reacted,

my mother was really happy,

so she was in the mood to drink!

I didn't do anything,

it was just that 630 became a little more sensible and patient...

But my father and mother,

were both happy, like a child who had received a huge reward!

At this moment,

Liu Ming's heart was really like a bottle of mixed feelings, with a lot of emotions, and an inexplicably complicated and heavy mood.

However,

Liu Ming didn't show these on his face,

but looked at his mother with a look of surprise.

"Mom, do you really want to drink?"

"Then I'll pour you less. This is your first time drinking, so don't get drunk..."

Liu Ming said,

and went over to pour wine for his mother.

It was different from pouring wine at the table when he was having dinner with his superiors and clients.

In those occasions,

there are many rules for pouring wine,

you can't make any mistakes.

For example,

when pouring wine for the other party,

you must follow the clockwise etiquette,

you must stand on the left side of the other party,

pour wine for the guests in turn,

this way,

it is convenient for the other party to raise the glass with his right hand to drink,

and it also avoids touching the other party with his arm when pouring wine.

In addition,

after you pour the wine,

you can't just turn around and leave.

You have to hold the wine glass for the other person with both hands, and then hold it up with your right palm,

and give the other person the wine to drink.

Before the other person drinks,

you have to say a few toasts,

and make the other person happy and satisfied,

then the other person will drink willingly.

After drinking the first glass,

usually you have to pour another glass,

which means good things come in pairs.

If you finish the second glass,

then you still can't leave,

you have to refill the other person's glass so that there is wine in the other person's glass.

After doing all this,

you can then pour wine for the next person.

And if you encounter,

someone wants to drink with you,

you can't take it lightly,

remember,

put the glass down a little,

to show your humility,

at least the height of the glass should be lower than the other person's middle finger width,

otherwise,

people will say you are ignorant.

And if the other person thinks the same way,

also puts the glass down, lower than you,

then you can't accept it with a clear conscience,

at this time,

what you need to do,

don'tis to lower the glass again,

In that case,

if the two of you compare and contrast, one lower than the other, it will appear hypocritical and polite,

the correct approach is,

hurry up and stretch out your left hand,

gently hold it on the other person's wrist,

raise the other person's wrist a little higher, let the other person's glass be higher than your own glass again,

both elevate the other person's status,

give the other person enough respect,

and achieve your own humble purpose,

in this way,

you can drink this glass of wine.

And if the other person does not come over to drink with you,

but sits on the seat and raises the glass to you from a distance,

after you finish drinking,

you also have to give him a finger-knocking ceremony,

pinch the thumb, middle finger, and index finger together,

with the fingertips facing down,

gently tap the table twice,

to show respect.

In this way,

it is a complete set of etiquette.

In addition to these,

there are many more rules at the wine table,

for those who do not often attend social gatherings,

to be honest,

you may not be able to learn them all even if you spend one or two years.

Some people say that this kind of drinking culture is part of our traditional culture,

which means that we know etiquette,

but there are also many people,

especially the young people nowadays,

such as those born in the 90s and 00s,

who feel disgusted with it,

thinking that it is dregs and disgusting.

Whether you like to drink or not,

where do all these tricks come from!

Many people even joked that,

When Huo Jin came to our place, he had to stand up from his wheelchair and toast to everyone one by one, otherwise he couldn't do anything...

But no matter what,

Whether the drinking culture is good or bad,

But it is something that really exists,

You want to get by in the workplace,

You want to win the favor of others,

You want to get things done for people,

Even if you don't want to do it in your heart,

But sometimes,

You have to do it.

Let’s not talk about anything else,

The rebellious post-90s who used to say that they wanted to rectify the drinking culture,

Now that they have entered society,

many of them have been smoothed by reality,

and have consciously bent their backs,

and started playing this extremely hypocritical thing?

Some things,

you can hate,

but when you need to do so,

you really have no way to change, you can only go with the flow.

Now,

everyone has placed their hopes of rectifying the drinking culture,

on the younger post-00s,

and I don’t know,

This time, can they,

change successfully and completely overthrow this disgusting and annoying drinking culture...

Oh,

It is worth mentioning that,

Now it is not just the drinking culture,

Even smoking,

has become a culture...

For example,

When you offer cigarettes to others,

How many cigarettes do you need to take out at one time?

There are five people present,

Do you take out cigarettes one by one,

Or take out five cigarettes at a time,

Or take out six cigarettes at a time,

Avoid having only one cigarette left in your hand when you offer it to the last person,

and give the other person the feeling that there are still cigarettes left?

Also,

When you offer cigarettes to people one by one,

should you offer cigarettes clockwise or counterclockwise?

When you offer cigarettes to people,

which part of the cigarette should you hold with your hand?

Is it the cigarette butt,

or the cigarette body,

or the cigarette tip?

If you hold the cigarette butt,

will the other party think that your hands are dirty and you have even dirty the filter tip, so how can they put it in their mouth?

If you hold the cigarette tip,

then how should you take the cigarette out of the cigarette box?

Do you make a hole at the bottom of the cigarette box,

and pull it out from the hole,

or,

pour the cigarette out from the top first,

and then,

quietly hold the cigarette tip when no one is paying attention?

In addition to these,

If someone offers you a cigarette,

how should you take it?

Should you take the cigarette on the outside or the inside?

After taking it,

Do you need to gently pat the back of the other person's hand?

And so on and so forth...

There are so many rules and culture here,

so many,

I can't even finish talking about them!

Some experts,

seem to have nothing to do every day,

and just like to study these broken things,

and then use these ridiculous rules,

to smugly restrain other people's words and deeds...

If you don't listen to him,

he will say that you don't respect traditional culture,

and that you don't understand the ways of the world!

In short,

the drinking culture and smoking culture,

have poisoned generations of people,

under the name of promoting traditional culture,

waving the banner of human relations,

using such ridiculous rules,

to restrict more and more people within the rules,

and unable to jump out.

No wonder,

the 90s and the 00s,

will be so scornful of these things!

…………

Let’s get back to the point,

outside, the drinking tableThere are indeed many rules in the classroom,

but at home,

between parents,

there is no need for so many rules.

Liu Ming walked over and poured wine for his mother,

feeling more relaxed and casual than ever before,

although there were no complicated rules,

but his mother was still so happy that her eyes were about to burst into laughter,

while she was shouting "enough, enough",

she hoped that her son could pour her more,

after all,

this was the first time that his son had poured wine for him after he grew up.

This very strange sense of satisfaction,

I guess only after becoming a parent,

can you understand and feel it.

On the side,

Liu Ming's father was also full of relief and joy,

"Son, don't pour too much for your mother..."

"Hey, you are such a jerk, you only allow you to drink, but not me, right?"

"This is the first time my son pours me wine, no matter how much he pours, I won't get drunk!"

"Son, pour some more for mom!"

"..."

The couple joked,

Liu Ming also poured some more for his mother again,

When it was almost poured,

he returned to his seat,

and filled a glass for himself.

Seeing that the family of three had wine,

Liu Ming’s father was the first to raise his glass happily,

“Come on, let’s drink together as a family of three!”

“Oh, by the way, I have to take a photo first!”

“Haha, I’ll show those guys tomorrow and make them envy me to death!”

Liu Ming’s father held up the wine glass in one hand,

with the other hand he took out his mobile phone and turned on the camera,

he took a few photos of the family of three clinking glasses,

I didn’t forget,

to take a photo of the wine bottle on the table that cost more than 100 yuan,

as well,

it was the first time in my life that I drank such good wine,

if I didn’t leave a souvenir and show it off to my friends,

wouldn’t it be a waste of wine?

Liu Ming's father's action,

made Liu Ming laugh and cry.

At the same time,

he also secretly decided in his heart that

if he had time in the future,

he must accompany his parents to drink more often,

to make them happy more times.

"Come on, cheers!"

"Son, wife, you guys are welcome, I'll drink!"

After taking the photo,

Liu Ming's father clinked his glasses for a while,

and then gulped it down.

He looked like a child who had a drink for the first time,

greedy and excited.

"Look at you, can't you drink slowly?"

"If you drink like this, be careful to get drunk!"

Seeing her husband's look,

Liu Ming's mother beside him laughed and cried=|

"What do you know?"

"Good wine doesn't make you drunk, let alone the wine poured by my son!"

"I can usually drink one catty."

"I won't get drunk even if I drink two catties today!"

"Don't worry, hahaha!"

Faced with his wife's reminder,

Liu Ming's father replied nonchalantly and complacently.

"Haha, that's right."

"Your dad has been looking forward to you drinking with him for more than 20 years!"

Liu Ming's mother smiled and looked at Liu Ming,

said with a smile,

"You don't know, when you were just born, your dad saw that you were a big fat boy, and the first thing he said at that time was that someone would accompany him to drink a few glasses in the future."

"Don't say you poured the wine today..."

"Even if you poured horse urine for your dad, he would I can taste the sweetness when I drink it!"

"Go away, go away, you think horse urine tastes sweet!"

"Look at you, you still don't admit it!"

"Why should I admit it? Just drink yours, my son has finished it!"

"..."

The old couple haven't been in such a good mood for a long time.

The father who is usually taciturn,

talks a lot today,

The family atmosphere,

Today is also particularly relaxed and active.

There is a saying,

Father's love makes mother calm, mother calm makes son safe, son safe makes family harmonious, family harmony makes everything prosperous;

Father's laziness makes mother suffer, mother suffering makes son afraid, son afraid makes family decline, family declines for three generations!

In the past, Liu Ming,

did not have a deep understanding of these words,

but at this moment,

looking at his parents teasing and joking with each other,

feeling the family atmosphere that he had not experienced for a long time,

for the first time in his life,

he had a strong resonance with these words.

He poured another glass of wine for his father,

The family of three,

drank,

and ate happily,

It should have been a dull and boring day,

but due to Liu Ming's sudden change,

it became indescribably happy...

All this,

came from the program called "Daily Life of Two Generations of Raising Children",

and from the wonderful performance of the 90s dad named Lu Yu in the program...

To be honest,

if he hadn't heard Lu Yu's words,

which made him wake up,

Liu Ming wouldn't have suddenly,

made such a big change.

Especially,

After truly feeling,

his change,

and the happiness it brought to his parents,

Liu Ming felt even more grateful to Lu Yu.

If Lu Yu hadn't pointed it out,

After saying that,

Liu Ming now,

probably still cannot appreciate his father's hard work, and continues to look down on him as a drunkard and a drunkard...

So,

Thank you so much, Brother Lu!

Liu Ming silently expressed his gratitude in his heart.

If possible,

he even wanted to go to Lu Yu in person,

to express his gratitude to him...