Live Broadcast: The post-90s generation is raising a child against their will, which is outrageous

After walking only a few steps, he heard his daughter starting to hug her again, and a hint of displeasure suddenly appeared on the middle-aged man's face!

The same was true for his wife, who immediately said,

"Yaya, daddy is so tired holding you!"

"And it’s still summer. After holding you for a while, you and your father will be covered in sweat."

"Can you walk by yourself?"

"Be obedient, Ha Yaya, if you are obedient, mommy will treat you to an ice cream later!"

After hearing her mother's words, the little girl named Yaya did not give up. Instead, she still stretched out her two little hands, stamped her feet impatiently and shouted,

"Dad, give me a hug, Yaya wants to give me a hug……"

"Dad, please, give Yaya a hug!"

"You kid, why are you so disobedient!"

The woman was a little impatient and said angrily,

"Every time you go out, you have to be hugged!"

"If you keep doing this, your parents won’t take you with them when they come out again!"

"It’s not like you can’t walk!"

"Can't you just walk by yourself?!"

"……"

After the woman finished speaking, she deliberately turned her head away, pretending that she couldn't see her daughter's outstretched hand, hoping that her daughter would retreat.

Faced with her behavior,

Yaya felt extremely aggrieved. She jumped up and down anxiously, still crying for a hug while desperately raising her little hands to plead in front of her parents.

He looked like an ant on a hot pot, restless.

Seeing this, the woman became even more impatient, and so did the middle-aged man, with speechlessness written on his face.

He didn't know what his daughter was thinking. Every time he went out, he had to hold her in his arms and was unwilling to walk even one step further. She is really not like this when she is at home. Sometimes, if you want to hug her at home, she won't let you. But as soon as you go out, you must hold it. If it's winter, it doesn't matter. It's just a hug, and at most it's a little tiring. But the key point is that this is summer now. The weather in June is still very hot. Even if the air conditioner is turned on in the mall, you will still be covered in sweat when you walk, let alone holding a twenty-year-old in your arms. What a weighty kid! Within two minutes of hugging each other, the clothes on both of them would be soaked! So, the middle-aged man really doesn't want to hold Yaya. At this time, seeing that Yaya was disobedient and about to start crying again, the middle-aged man completely lost his patience and was about to scold Yaya... However, at this moment, something suddenly appeared in his mind. There was a scene of Lu Yu and Tong Tong getting along while watching the show! The father and daughter in the show really get along so harmoniously and harmoniously, with no generation gap at all. They are just like a pair of close friends. The middle-aged man looks envious. Especially just now, the scene where Brother Lu and Tongtong were sharing snacks made the middle-aged man laugh. While waiting for his wife to buy clothes, he was sitting on a chair at the door. He almost stopped laughing. He jumped directly from the chair. Fall down! After reading this paragraph, while laughing, the middle-aged man also fell into thinking. As a father, how can he get along with his children as closely as Brother Lu and Tongtong? After much thought, he finally came up with the answer! That is, enter the child's world, look at the world from the child's perspective , understand the child, and start being friends with the child! In this way, maybe one day, he and his daughter Yaya can become a close father and daughter, just like Brother Lu and Tongtong! Because of this, after thinking about this, the middle-aged man immediately swallowed back the reprimanding words on his lips!

"If it were Brother Lu, he would definitely not reprimand Tongtong if this happened!"

The middle-aged man thought and tried to calm down.

He looked at his daughter who was still crying and clamoring for a hug.

He put away his impatience and asked,

"Yaya, daddy can hold you"

"However, can you first tell Dad why you have to let Dad hold you?"

The middle-aged man imitated Lu Yu's communication style with Tongtong and began to imitate it.

After Yaya heard the words, she immediately paused and saw her looking at the people around her in fear, and then said,

"Because, because Yaya was very scared, she let her father hold her……"

"Fear?!"

Hearing his daughter's answer, the middle-aged man was stunned.

This was the first time he knew that the reason why his daughter wanted to be held by him was actually because of fear!

What are you afraid of?!

What is there to be afraid of here?!

If it were normal times, , the middle-aged man might sneer, and then find his daughter's answer ridiculous and ignore it.

But this time, he did not do it again, but asked seriously,

"Yaya, can you tell dad what you are afraid of?"

"Your parents are with you, so what do you have to be afraid of?"

"Are you afraid of getting lost, or are you afraid of something else?"

The middle-aged man put himself into Lu Yu's character and patiently asked his daughter.

On the side, his wife saw this and smiled silently,

"Husband, don’t listen to Yaya’s nonsense!"

"What is there to be afraid of?"

"Let me tell you, Yaya is just acting like a baby, she is too lazy to walk!"

"I've heard people say before that many children are like this. When they can't walk, they insist on walking down and are unwilling to be held by adults."

"But when they grow up and learn to walk, they begin to be reluctant to walk by themselves and have to be held by an adult!"

"It's because, as they grow up, they become smarter and know that they are tired from walking!"

"Compared to walking by yourself, it is so much easier and more comfortable to be carried by an adult!"

"After all, it’s just laziness!"

"……"

From the perspective of the middle-aged man's wife, whether she is afraid or not is just an excuse for a child.

Yaya just wants to be lazy and feels tired from walking, so she insists on letting him hold her!

This view, to be honest, is also the view of many parents.

When their children want to be held, they subconsciously think that the children are acting coquettishly, being pretentious, unwilling to walk, or tired of walking.

Normally, a middle-aged man might agree with this statement, but this time, when faced with his wife's explanation, he just shook his head slightly.

What he wants is not an answer summarized from the adult world, but an answer from his daughter's mouth.

"Don't talk yet, I want to hear Yaya say it herself."

The middle-aged man waved to his wife, looked at his daughter, and asked patiently,

"Yaya, tell daddy, okay? What are you afraid of?"

"I'll go, husband, you ask what this is for, didn't I tell you everything?……"

"Would you please shut up!"

The middle-aged man glared at his wife, who immediately rolled her eyes, and crossed her hips speechlessly and angrily.

The middle-aged man ignored her, still waiting for his daughter's answer.

After waiting for a few seconds,

Yaya explained with great difficulty in her childish voice,

"Dad, Yaya is afraid, afraid of everything……"(To read exciting novels, go to Feilu Novel Network!)

"I'm afraid of so many people here, I'm afraid of this doll, I'm also afraid of how high this place is, and I'm afraid of that painting……"

As Yaya spoke, she stretched out her little hand and pointed everywhere.

The middle-aged man followed the direction of his daughter's finger and looked over.

"Needless to say, people are everywhere in the mall.

The doll,

Yaya, refers to a half-human tall doll at the door of the store next to it. It is shaped like Pinocchio with a long nose.

Very tall?

Yaya Refers to the top.

The ceiling is very high?

Well, it is indeed quite high here.

The painting [] refers to a poster hanging from the top of the mall.

The poster hangs from the top to the bottom, more than ten meters high.

The poster is a photo of a popular female star promoting a certain product in the mall.

Obviously, the things that Yaya mentioned that scare her are actually completely normal and commonplace for adults. There is nothing to be afraid of. The middle-aged man’s wife couldn’t help but laugh.

"Husband, look, Yaya is just talking nonsense!"

"What's there to be afraid of?"

Yeah... what should my daughter be afraid of in these things ? Could it be that her daughter is really talking nonsense? The middle-aged man fell into deep thought and began to doubt the authenticity of what Yaya said. However , , when he noticed Yaya's expression, he suddenly became stern. He saw that Yaya's face did show a look of fear. This look really didn't look like she was pretending. She really was. He was more afraid. However, the middle-aged man couldn't figure out why his daughter should be afraid of these things. Until he suddenly remembered the experience he had learned from Lu Yu when he watched the program. , look at the world from a child's perspective! A child's perspective... Thinking of this, the middle-aged man suddenly had an idea. He changed from standing and looking down at his daughter to squatting. He squatted on Yaya Next to her, she made herself as tall as Yaya. However, Yaya was too short. She was only three and a half years old. Even when she squatted down, she was still half a head taller than Yaya. So , the middle-aged man simply spread his legs further to both sides.

, finally barely reached the height of her daughter.

After doing this, the middle-aged man raised his head again and looked around.

At first glance, he was stunned for a moment, and then he became extremely surprised and shocked!

It was as if he had discovered a new world, and even his breathing became rapid at this moment! Especially when people passed by one after another, the middle-aged man felt a feeling he had never experienced before! Looking at it from his current low perspective, these passers-by, who were originally very ordinary passers-by to him, at this moment, have become as tall and burly as giants! When they passed by him, he couldn't see their faces at all. When he looked straight at them, all he could see were their legs and shoes. Even if you raise your head and look up, you can only see their chins and nostrils. An inexplicable sense of oppression arose spontaneously. At this moment, the middle-aged man suddenly realized that his daughter's perspective had always been so small! Yaya is three and a half years old this year, and her height is 80 centimeters, which is the height of a normal girl in this age group. The height of the passers-by around him is generally about 1.7 meters. 80 cm is a multiple of 2.125 times as compared to 170 cm! If converted into a height of 1.8 meters, it is equivalent to walking in a shopping mall, surrounded by giants close to four meters tall! Would you be scared walking among these giants ? Do you even need to ask? I must be afraid! As long as you are a normal person, who can not be afraid of this!! Suddenly, the middle-aged man finally realized what his daughter was afraid of! This world, viewed from an adult's perspective, is very ordinary and normal. But for a child who is only 80 centimeters tall and is still in the stage of ignorance, all the people, things and things around him are so huge and oppressive! Thinking of this, he turned to look at the Pinocchio doll again. The originally cute doll was really not cute at all when it became taller than him. Instead, it was very scary. He couldn't see it at all. The expression on its face could only see the long nose, which was longer than the daughter's forearm, and the ceiling... The middle-aged man looked up and saw that the ceiling had become very high, as if it would fall at any time. Like falling down. Not to mention that painting, the female star printed on the poster that is more than ten meters high, if viewed from an adult perspective, is equivalent to a super giant close to thirty meters tall, thirty meters... The largest marine creature in the world, the blue whale, is only between 26 and 30 meters long. From Yaya's perspective, the female star in the poster is like asking an adult to stand in front of a blue whale at close range and watch a blue whale! Even a person without a phobia of giant animals would probably have a strong uncomfortable reaction in front of such a huge blue whale! At this moment, the middle-aged man understood. He finally understood why every time he brought Yaya out, Yaya would pester her and ask an adult to hold her! She is not lazy or coquettish, but, looking at the past from her small perspective, she really feels sincerely afraid of this unknown, strange and huge world!

"Hahaha, husband, what are you doing?"

"You look so funny!"

"Get up quickly!"

"I've already told you that your daughter is just lazy. She's not afraid of anything, but you really believe it!"

"……"

At this time, the middle-aged man's wife couldn't help but speak.

Looking at her husband squatting there and looking around, she really wanted to laugh out loud.

She didn't know what her husband was doing.

He looked so funny!

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