Smiling at the peach blossom fan, peach blossoms smile at the spring breeze

Is he really happy, he has both children and daughters, he has a car and a house, he has no worries about food and clothing, a group of beautiful wives and concubines are quite harmonious, he never fights for vinegar, he doesn't need to call his neighbors to play mahjong, and his wives are enough.

But is Dong Xiaowan really happy? Did Dong Xiaowan also find a good husband? Everyone has a disagreement on this.

Some people think that Xiaowan is really happy, otherwise she would not treat housework as a career, and serve the family with a model worker-like work attitude and a public servant-like dedication.

Some people think that she is unlucky, that there is bitterness hidden behind the innovation of housework, and that the motivation for hard work is a sense of crisis in the family's status. Any woman likes to be pampered by a man and is used to holding it, and no one wants to be like a slave who lowers her eyebrows and takes care of the daily life of a family. If taking care of your husband is a kind of happiness, taking care of your in-laws is filial piety, taking care of your children who are not your own children is an obligation, and if you don't take care of it well, you will raise tigers and snakes, and taking care of the vixens who share your own men is too troublesome. Therefore, the more accomplished Xiao Wan's daily life is, the more she can see her helplessness and sorrow, behind these achievements is the deep inferiority of a hard-working servant.

Some people even think that Xiao Wan regrets it. Before marriage, she was like the stars holding the moon, the public lover and the national idol, licking the dog and countless fans everywhere, spending all the time and wine and jewelry, flowers and applause are drunk and golden, a look can make countless talents drool, twisting the waist will make a group of young people bleed, high-ranking officials and nobles compete to bend their waists, rich businessmen and giants buy laughter, which is also polite to her, that is, in order to meet her, she is not far away, and she is also cheap. Now this group of house sparrows of the impostor family can never think of the infinite scenery she once had, in terms of talent, appearance, waist, and even the ability to deal with men, this group of house sparrows and her are absolutely not at the same level as her! It is nothing more than that these house spinches are wholesalers, and she has done retail before wholesale, where does she get her sense of superiority! But she has to lower her posture in front of these people, and she is a slave and a servant, and she can't even eat a meal, and when she waits for this group of house spinches to eat, she must hate how these house finches can accept her service with peace of mind. How can you not choke to death!

For Xiaowan's life, the optimist sees diligence, happiness, harmony and contentment, the pessimist sees the humble, lowly, helpless and enduring, and the mediocre sees the incomplete, one step back, and the happiness in the ointment.

What does Xiao Wan think? We don't know. Different levels, different angles, different nature, the well frog can not speak in the sea, the summer insect can not speak in the ice, Xiaowan was at the top, although she was still in her twenties at this time, but she has experienced prosperity like a dream, and has long understood the withered grass and withered poplar song and dance field, and the taste of the world is Qinghuan. People's hearts are like the sea, the world is like a tide, and after experiencing the ups and downs of the sea and mulberry fields, I know that after the prosperity is exhausted, it is boundless emptiness, loneliness and coldness, and I understand that after eating and seeing, we are confused and tormented. Maybe the hardships of life in the eyes of ordinary people are the happiness in Xiaowan's eyes, maybe the dullness that ordinary people are tired of is the dream in her heart, maybe the cage of ordinary people is the harbor in her heart, even if this harbor is not very calm and not too warm, but it can give her a permanent shelter, as long as the harbor is willing to take in, she will stay at ease and not leave, and the peace of mind is her hometown.

We can't empathize with Xiao Wan's heart and feelings, the above situation is analogous, because the masters we know well are like this: after fighting all over the world, winning the starry sky and even after the creation of the world, friends and enemies have nothing to exchange for just endless loneliness, at this time, they often drift across the sea, looking for overseas fairy mountains and valleys, a thatched house, three points in Botian, a pot of old wine, a number of Meiji, and a safe and easy line, and a safe stay, not a fairy, but a fairy.

In the third year of Dong Xiaowan's marriage into the impostor's family, the shadow of war shrouded Rugao, and black clouds overwhelmed the city. Duoduo led his army across the Yangtze River and marched into Nanjing, starting a military campaign to unify Jiangnan, and the vigorous war began in an all-round way, and the quiet and harmonious life of the people in Jiangnan that lasted for three hundred years was broken.

There were no eggs under the nest, and the Mao family learned that the rebellion was coming, and they were not in the mood to eat Dong meat and Dong candy anymore, so they packed their bags and fled collectively. Before leaving, the old lady Mao, who has a lot of life experience, told everyone to prepare more broken silver. This point is very necessary, broken silver is a trivial matter in normal times, but it is a major event on the way to escape, and it is inconvenient to use jewelry, gold nuggets and large silver tickets to pay for the cost of transportation and boats, it is simply a test of people's moral bottom line, and it is also a test of the professional quality of lawbreakers.

This little thing stumped everyone. Usually they are not bad money, food and clothing are luxuries, and any consumption is a huge amount of money for ordinary people, how can there be the concept of change.

When everyone was helpless, Dong Xiaowan took out a lot of change, divided into pieces of hair, adding up to one hundred taels, which is equivalent to all the belongings of a moderately wealthy family, and solved the urgent needs of a group of people.

Some people think that this detail shows Dong Xiaowan's meticulous and loving life, while others think that a money-squandering courtesan has been reduced to a housewife who collects change, which shows how cautious and tired Dong Xiaowan is in life.

After the change problem was solved, Xiao Wan followed Mao Bijiang and his eldest wife, second wife, three, four, five or six wives and some of the family property and began to flee.

On the way, he changed the image of a playboy back then, holding his wife with one hand and his mother with the other, and didn't care about the little foot concubine who was gradually moving away from the big army.

Among these concubines, Dong Xiaowan is the most unbearable. Since she was a child, her family was not good and she had no money to supplement calcium, which led to a thin body, and when she grew up, she needed to maintain her figure due to work, and her sick wine and sadness further hollowed out her body, coupled with her "sentimental and sick" personality for herself, causing her physique to be seriously lower than that of ordinary women. This kind of weak physique can barely cope with housework in ordinary times, but it is too difficult to escape.

Soon, Xiao Wan was left behind at the end of the escape team, and she could fall behind at any time when she stumbled, and she had never been so embarrassed in her life.

Mao Bijiang described this scene in one sentence: "Ji alone is turning around, and the servants are in the line." From this description, it can be seen that Dong Xiaowan didn't answer Mao Bijiang like this, which shows that he really has no status in Mao Bijiang's heart, he is nothing more than an affordable, functional, sturdy and easy-to-use slave.

Many people feel sorry for Dong Xiaowan, feel worthless for Dong Xiaowan, feel that she has found a bastard who doesn't know how to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade, and she will abandon the chaos from the beginning, thinking that Xiaowan has no need to run away with Lao Mao. Lao Mao is no longer the official son of the year, but just a refugee, nothing more than a rich refugee. If Dong Xiaowan stayed to meet the Qing people, he would definitely have a great future with his appearance and reputation, and maybe he would have become a good thing with the old monk of Shunzhi, that is, finding a Qing army officer would be far better than following this ruthless and unrighteous bastard.

Xiao Wan does not complain about the court, and does not blame the society for his back, with his own poems as evidence: "The matter is in a hurry, and the king is in danger, and it is difficult to meet the king in this life." Although the intestines have been broken, life is not from death. Hongyan has been living a thin life since ancient times, and everyone in history has learned from it. Fight hard to reward your confidant, and chase Wu Bochen as a ghost. I don't know if I will find out if I have a conscience after reading this poem.

After the Qing army occupied most of the southern part of the Yangtze River, it single-handedly exterminated the bloody suppression of the rebel forces, and issued a proclamation announcing the establishment of a coalition government, resolving ethnic contradictions, vigorously engaging in infrastructure construction, improving the investment environment, and promoting sustainable development.

The Mao Bijiang family responded to the call of the imperial court and ended their wandering and returned to their hometown. However, after such a toss, the impostor found that his family was empty, he had no money, and he had to live a poor life. Of course, no money is the lack of money of large households, more money than ordinary people, fixed and semi-fixed assets such as land, real estate, jewelry, etc., are still there, but cash deposits and other liquid assets are gone, seafood is replaced by braised pork, BMW is replaced by Volkswagen, and life is lowered by a grade.

Xiao Wan doesn't care about this, money is a bastard, if it's gone, it's gone, it's a happy thing to live a normal family life. There are flowers in spring and moon in autumn, cool breeze in summer and snow in winter, if there is nothing to worry about, it is a good season in the world, there are too many beautiful things in the world, why bother but to have fun from money. Besides, it's not a bad thing if you can go to the grass less because you don't have money.

Mao Bijiang really didn't go to mess with flowers and grass, because he had an illness, first he ate bad things and had dysentery, and during the dysentery period, his resistance subordinates got malaria, and because of malaria, a large amount of medicine caused stomach bleeding, and the stomach was weak and the stomach was on fire and had poisonous sores, and the illness was nearly a year.

Saiong lost his horse, he knew the blessings and misfortunes, this time was also the time for the court to seek talent and thirst, and he easily sent the court away on the grounds of his body, it was not that the court was deceived by him, he did look like a person who was going to die.

I can't make any money, and I spend a lot of money, and the days of impostoring suddenly become nervous. In order to save the festival, a large number of impostors have laid off employees, and some short-term temporary workers have been laid off. Since Xiao Wan is so capable, let's let our mules, horses, and big animals rest.

The number of people has been reduced, and there is still a group of half-crippled masters who have to eat, drink, and have to be taken care of. Xiao Wan was originally low and small, and because of her background, all these jobs were piled up on her. Faced with a sick ghost husband, and in the face of a working father and mother who can only eat and can't work, Xiao Wan quickly changed roles, from studying piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and recipe embroidery, she began to change her career to study medical skills and nursing knowledge.

Fortunately, it was not a serious illness that Mao Bijiang gets, under Xiao Wan's careful care, Mao Bijiang's illness gradually improved, his blood volume, health and energy value gradually recovered, and he had the energy to find new love.

It's just that Dong Xiaowan was tortured by long-term heavy hard work and mental pressure, and her immunity dropped sharply, and she fell ill not long after she recovered.

Hanahara is cowardly, how can he be wild, and Liu Ben is sad, why not forbid the shower. A few months later, less than eight years after marrying Mao Bijiang, in a Spring Festival celebrated by everyone, after watching his family eat dumplings and rice cakes, Dong Xiaowan left the world, and arrived in heaven where there are no cars and only lilacs bloom and the walls are full of clocks.

Regarding this matter, Mao Bijiang wrote the saddest short article in his life: his concubine Dong Xiaowan died at the age of 28 at the age of 28 due to ineffective treatment due to illness. The cremation ceremony is scheduled to be held at the Rucheng Funeral Home in three days, and it is hoped that relatives and friends will go to Yingmei Nunnery in the southern suburbs of Rucheng to pay their respects. The clumsy husband took the liberty of crying.

Xiao Wan died like this, in the mood for love. Described in the poetry of foreigners: "Life is like the splendor of summer flowers, death is like the dissolution of winter death"; "

To sum up, Xiao Wan entered the Qinglou since she was a child and started her life with tragedy, but she became a leader in the industry with her own efforts and changed her fate with knowledge; Thinking about it this way, Xiao Wan's death is not a sad thing.

However, it was the catastrophe brought to her by the happy marriage she pursued all her life that made her disappear in the mood for love, and she withered before she was fully bloomed. If it weren't for the marriage she desperately pursued, maybe she would have lived a long time.

A generation of alluring cities and waves, Wu Gongkong remembers his family.

Xiao Feng Mo smiled at the girl of the East Village, and the head was still full of yarn by the white stream.

There is only one life, and no one can know in advance what scenery they will encounter if they go the other way.

What we can't get is always the best, so when we look back on the past, there are always too many regrets, always regret that we are young and frivolous, and we always think that if we can start again, we will definitely choose another path and choose another person.