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One is to be too serious and too heavy on gains and losses. When people get along with ordinary friends, they don't need to ask themselves to be liked by others, but they can do things by their temperament, sway freely, and be self-confident, while when they really like someone, they tend to behave strangely, drill into the horns, be unwarranted suspicion, suffer from gains and losses, advance and retreat, be extreme and sensitive, only promise, cower, and even lose themselves and become a stranger they don't know. It starts with a heartbeat and a blush, and it is a bad heart to be able to grasp the skills of going and paying attention step by step.

Therefore, people tend to behave badly in front of people they really like, the more they like to behave, the more clumsy they are, the more eager they are, the more disgusted they are, the more they lick the dog, the more they are despised, the more passionate they are, the more naïve they are, and the result is inevitably to be disgusted and abandoned. Therefore, in the relationship between men and women, whoever is serious loses, who is tempted loses, who loves each other more and who loses, and when you see each other as YYDS, you lose. If you're doing it perfectly, it means that you don't really like it and don't care very much. Xiao Wan moved his true feelings in his relationship with Mao Bijiang, so he naturally lost.

The second is that it is too anxious. Over the years, Xiao Wan has been a cold bystander to men and women in the world, detached from things, clear bystanders, unhindered, able to handle the proportions just right, and guide the infatuated men and women how to get along as a veteran of the love field. The more lukewarm, salty and indifferent she is to men, the more men flock to them. Now that she has encountered Mao Bijiang, she found that the position was reversed, she was moved by her true feelings, suffered retribution, and lost her usual demeanor of lifting weights.

Third, the enemy is too underestimated. Over the years, Dong Xiaowan has only one trick to deal with men: he wants to capture and indulge, and he wants to refuse and welcome. One trick is fresh, eat all over the world, with this stunt, Dong Xiaowan is arrogant and invincible here, one look is enough to make countless fans obsessed and crazy, and a smile can make countless men bankrupt. After years of victory, Xiao Wan gradually developed the heart of despising the enemy, arrogant, and regarded the men in the world as nothing.

Mao Bijiang is different from other men, he is a semi-professional player, an old hooligan, he has eaten and seen, he has read countless people of the same way, and he has seen too many moves of Dong Xiaowan to retreat into advance, and he is basically immune.

Due to ideological paralysis, Dong Xiaowan underestimated and did not attach enough importance to difficulties, did not have a specific analysis of specific problems, used old methods to solve new problems, underestimated the enemy, and rigidly adopted dogma, thus making the mistake of opportunism and empiricism.

After investigating the problem clearly, Xiao Wan continued to draw inferences from one case and dig deeper into the root cause, thinking that the crux of the above mistakes was a problem with the mentality. If you want to get your hands on Mao Bijiang, you must throw it into fantasy, return to reality, find the gap, start from the basics and start from the details in a down-to-earth manner, after all, she is not as beautiful as Chen Yuanyuan's national beauty, and she can't make people want to die or live as soon as they meet.

Thinking about this joint, Dong Xiaowan calmed down, since he couldn't make Mao Bijiang fall in love at first sight, then try to fall in love for a long time; In short, professional vs. amateur, mental arithmetic or unintentional, I really don't believe it. Dong Xiaowan can fail countless times, it is nothing more than starting over, but as long as he is excited and relieved for a while, he will be relied on in this life.

Xiao Wan forced herself to forget about failure, eliminate all negative emotions, start over, adjust your thinking, face difficulties, let go of reserve, take the initiative, deliver goods to the door, carry out a love offensive, openly and secretly express admiration to Mao Xiang, express love, and express willingness to give up her career and marry into the Mao family in a carriage with a dowry; I heard that when she went to Nanjing, she searched 100,000 mountains in spite of the fatigue of the journey and the delay in work, not for the sake of repairing the afterlife, but only for an encounter with the city, and there were several accidents on the road.

Mao Bijiang didn't take Xiao Wan seriously, wrote a reply letter when he was in a good mood, and threw the letter in the wind when he was in a bad mood; he didn't feel it when he met Xiao Wan, he was interested in playing with Xiao Wan, and he hurriedly coped with a few words when he was not interested, and turned around to find another woman, and he didn't tell Xiao Wan when he left. There's no way, the love of the woman she got from Mao Bijiang is too much, and she can't take care of it, she is numb and has no feelings.

Xiao Wan ignored Mao Bijiang's avoidance, neglect, and ruthlessness, the more frustrated she became, the more courageous she became, and she was defeated and defeated, but she still kept writing letters to Mao Bijiang, constantly looking for various opportunities to contact, and always reminded Mao Bijiang to be the first thing to think of when she got married in the future. At the same time, it is also to use practical actions to tell other sisters in the industry that Mao Bijiang is already the owner's dry food, and no one can touch it again.

Women chase men, interlayer yarn, can Xiao Wan get to venture out of the frontier and enter the marriage hall together?

Compared with marriage, true love is neither sufficient nor necessary, and true love is often only exchanged for gloom and sadness. If you want to achieve a marriage, you must meet the right person at the right time. Not to mention that there are no suitable people, even the right time is extremely difficult to meet, maybe you are not mature and have not exuded charm, maybe you are the most depressed time, maybe you don't know what the world is, maybe you don't know how to cherish or won't cherish at all; maybe the other party has a famous flower, maybe the other party is saturated with the opposite sex and which one is better than you, maybe the other party only likes the same sex during this time, maybe the other party doesn't think about marriage at all, maybe the other party happens to annoy you without annoying others during this time, and looks at you unpleasantly for no reason.

Xiao Wan thinks that this time is just right, because a year ago, Mao Bijiang had just lost Chen Yuanyuan, and he was in a blank period of feelings, and he was seeking comfort and hugs in his heart, and now was a good time to take advantage of the void.

Xiao Wan is right, but it's not right, because the loss of Chen Yuanyuan is too big a blow to Mao Bijiang, his heart is now like a gray wood, he can indulge Hu Lai to do whatever he wants, but he will not really be tempted by any woman, once the sea is difficult to water, and his heart has been occupied by Chen Yuanyuan, no one can compare with Chen Yuanyuan, and no one can replace him, except for Chen Yuanyuan, all the charms and thousands of reds in the world are scum.

For a period of time after losing Chen Yuanyuan, Mao Bijiang closed the door of his heart tightly and did not allow other women to enter casually. Although the door was always open for the women to come in and out, he only moved his hands and feet but was not moved, and he did everything he should not do, that is, he did not have the intention of marrying the door.

From this point of view, Xiao Wan was late, and encountered a time when she didn't enter the territory, and she fell in love, and her love couldn't ignite a little spark, and all her heart was used in the dog's belly.

Being affectionate is not like being affectionate and bitter, but being affectionate is ruthlessly annoyed. Over the years, Xiao Wan has maintained the image of an unattainable goddess, followed by a group of licking dogs; now he has stepped down from the altar and put down his body, and has taken the initiative to throw himself into his arms as a licking dog, and he has always been indifferent, Xiao Wan is sad and hurts his self-esteem, and finally understands the pain of licking dogs.

After chasing after him so hard, there was no answer here, and Xiao Wan wondered if there would be a result if he went down further. If she hadn't tried it herself, Xiao Wan would almost have suspected that Mao Bijiang was a member of the eunuch party in the physiological sense or had practiced some magical skills.

For Xiao Wan, sadness is the lightest kind of injury. As an artist with no money, no power, no identity and no status, she mingles among a group of hooligans in high society as a plaything, and who is next to her is also a behemoth, she has to be accompanied by a smiling face when she is humiliated, she is swallowed in her stomach with broken teeth, and she has experienced too many unbearable pasts, and this little emotional setback is just a drizzle.

As for what self-esteem doesn't matter, it's a job without any self-esteem, as a giant vixen, being pointed at and scolded for being immoral is already a part of life, and a little bit of self-esteem when I first entered the industry has been pressed on the ground and rubbed countless times, and it has long been turned into dust. Can we give up risking up for the sake of self-esteem? Will we have self-esteem when we marry an old man when we are old and yellow? Do you have self-esteem when you become a monk? Do you have self-esteem when you wear coarse cloth and rags and pick up vegetable leaves? Do you have self-esteem when you are bullied by a group of village ruffians and hooligans? Do you have self-esteem when you put on a smiling face or even take off your clothes to beg someone? Compared with the cruel reality of life, self-esteem is really nothing, and survival is much more valuable than self-esteem.

No matter what difficulties she encountered, Xiao Wan had no intention of giving up. It is impossible to give up, it is impossible to give up in this life, and I can't do business, so I can only insist on entangled Mao Bijiang, Mao Lang abused me thousands of times, and I treated Mao Lang like my first love. If she gives up entanglement, she will become a confidant like Li Siniang in the next step, love is still separated in the end, and loneliness is the only option.

She persuaded herself that she firmly believed that her fate was in her own hands, that the opportunity was created by herself, that God rewarded her hard work, and that sincerity was the only way to open the golden stone, and that there was only a bad hoe, and there was no wall that could not be dug up! Since she did not hesitate to marry Chen Yuanyuan and go home, it showed that he was not King Kong or bad, and that beauty and physical needs were inevitably more important in his heart than traditional morality and the world's discussions. Chen Yuanyuan had already opened a hole and a crack in her heart, and what she needed to do was much easier, she only needed to drill the hole wider, widen the seam, and see maggots under the seams.

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plot has developed to this point, everyone must feel weird in their hearts, they feel that Mao Bijiang is really a bastard, a lot of age, no official position, nothing but money, married several wives and still eats in the bowl and looks at the pot, so I ask you why? When I met a big beauty like Xiao Wan, I put down my reserve and stuck it up, he was still greasy and crooked and reluctant, he was really a complete slut.

It can't be helped, this is the reality, poverty limits our phenomenon. We think that having money is not necessarily happy because we can't imagine how happy we will be when we have money, and we accept our fate because we don't have money, and we can never imagine how capricious we can be when we have money. Those goddesses who are unattainable to us are purely dishes on the stall in the eyes of these rich people, picking and choosing depending on the mood. When you are high up and can turn over the clouds and rain, you will find that there is an unattainable immortal face where you are.