Siheyuan: Take your sister away at the beginning

Wen Li looked at He Yuzhu with her mouth open, she was really confused at this time, she felt that in front of He Yuzhu, she seemed to be a student who was being taught a philosophy of life by a teacher.

Mainly, she felt as if she had been brainwashed by He Yuzhu's words, and she herself felt that her previous thoughts on marriage were a little too simplistic.

But what Wen Li didn't expect was that what He Yuzhu said to her next was the real blow to her.

Although He Yuzhu knew that his words had already had a certain impact on Wen Li, just talking about the big truth could not completely change Wen Li's thoughts all along.

He thought about it, and began to describe her future married life directly to Wen Li according to her thoughts.

"For example, if you want to marry a man who shares your interests, such a person who meets your requirements must also be a person who has read books, and with your social circle, there is a high probability that you will eventually meet a teacher.

Do you think that after you get married, you can really live as you think, and life is romantic and stormy.

I don't think you can cook, you don't know how to take care of housework, you don't think you can find an intellectual who can cook and do housework.

Even if you say that you can learn and you will do all the things at home, but in that case, if you are busy with housework and have to go to work every day, will you still have the time and mood to talk about the ups and downs? Would you still feel happy and romantic in this kind of life?"

Under He Yuzhu's step-by-step guidance, Wen Li couldn't help but start to fantasize about her future life in her mind along with what He Yuzhu said, and then she realized that if everything in the family was handed over to her after getting married in the future, she would definitely not be able to stand it, what romance was there?

Thinking of this, Wen Li's face couldn't help but turn pale, and at this moment, she heard He Yuzhu ask her again.

"In addition, Comrade Wen Li, presumably your salary as a primary school teacher is not high, right?

Wen Li subconsciously replied: "I have only been employed for a year, and my monthly salary plus other subsidies is almost forty yuan. "

He Yuzhu noticed that Wen Li had become a little distraught, and he secretly rejoiced and analyzed Wen Li at the same time: "Look, you have this salary yourself, this teacher, the salary is not high at the beginning, so that the sum of you two people will not be too much."

Although this money is okay for ordinary people, after all, only five yuan a month can almost survive, but it has to eat bran vegetables all at once.

For ordinary people, all they want is to survive.

Presumably, Comrade Wen Li's pursuit of life will not be so demanding, and she definitely doesn't want to wronged herself.

And two people can get twenty or thirty yuan for a month's food, even if they can order a little, if they occasionally go out to eat, watch a movie, buy a few good clothes, cosmetics or something, and add some other necessities, then the money will be little or even not enough.

If you want to buy three major things or something, it is estimated that you will have to save money for several years before it is possible.

In addition, there are far more places that need to spend money, which will have children after marriage, and the cost of raising a child is not low, especially if it is inseparable from people, you have to take care of it at all times.

If you have a few more children, you say that if you can't work to take care of the children, do you think you can support the whole family with one person's salary?

At that time, you either had to take care of the children or do laundry and cook every day, and you might not have time to go out or even read books every day, is this kind of life what you want?

If you get sick and have no money at home, you can't go around begging people to borrow money?

Do you think it's any use if you're like-minded with your husband?"

He Yuzhu knew that Wen Li was a good-looking person and spent money lavishly, and she was unwilling to live a hard life, so he deliberately said this to scare Wen Li and make her understand that after getting married, what she needs most in this life is money, not romantic love.

Sure enough, as soon as his words came out, Wen Li, who was already white-faced, became even more listless and depressed. (If you read a violent novel, go to Feilu Novel Network!)

At this time, He Yuzhu thought of the conflict between the original drama Chinese Li and Tong Zhi's mother after marriage, and finally said in a low tone: "Also, from ancient times to the present, the biggest problem for this woman after marriage is to get along with her mother-in-law, not to mention the attitude of your father-in-law and mother-in-law towards you after marriage, that is, just to say that they want to live in the same place with your husband and wife, you and your husband have no private space, can you accept such a situation?"

Not to mention, if the person you choose is not in good condition and lives in a small house, like many large courtyards at present, a family of seven or eight is crammed into a house with an area of twenty or thirty square meters, can you stand it?"

Hearing this, Wen Li couldn't help but feel excited, and immediately shook her head with an ugly face.

Seeing this, He Yuzhu smiled proudly and didn't say more, but quietly waited for Wen Li to think about his own words.

And at this time, Wen Li's inner emotions can be described as complicated, her mind is full of how Yuzhu described, and she can't help but think about the hard life after she gets married in the future. []

I am either doing housework or taking care of my children every day, I can't teach and educate people, I can't buy what I want to buy, I and my parents-in-law's family are crammed into a small house, and I have to receive criticism from my mother-in-law every day, and finally I am seriously ill but I can only lie in bed alone and wait for death because I have no money...

The more she thought about it, the more Wen Li felt that if she found someone who had 540 literacy but no money according to her previous thoughts, her future life might really become what she thought in her mind.

This made Wen Li feel that if she really wanted to get married, she couldn't just consider whether her future husband and her could be like-minded, but also his family conditions, and those with bad conditions couldn't get married.

Thinking of the good conditions, Wen Li suddenly remembered the situation of He Yuzhu that the matchmaker said yesterday, there are no parents, only a younger sister who does not need to be taken care of, there is a single courtyard that is larger than her own, the house is also very well decorated, there is a bathroom that she wants to experience, there are three major things or everything, and her cooking skills are also very good, and she can earn a minimum of 100 yuan per month.

If you want to marry He Yuzhu, then your life must be very good, and you definitely don't need to do all the cooking and housework yourself.

In addition, although He Yuzhu is a cook, his performance since they met, especially what he said to himself, shows that his cultural level is not low, and he no longer needs to worry about whether he can have a common topic with him, but whether he can talk about He Yuzhu in the future!

If you think about it this way, is this He Yuzhu actually quite suitable for you?

Suddenly, Wen Li's face changed, and her heart couldn't help but tremble, and the shame in her heart was shaken, and then she couldn't help but shake her head lightly and threw out the thoughts in her mind.