Siheyuan: Take your sister away at the beginning

At this moment, He Yuzhu was a little hesitant, not knowing whether to marry such a woman?

But just glanced at Wen Li again, and the little hesitation in He Yuzhu's mind was immediately forgotten by him, such a beauty, even if he has some shortcomings, he must marry it.

Besides, he also has self-confidence, after Wen Li follows him, he will definitely be able to change Wen Li's thoughts such as being young and patriarchal.

As for other people who spend money lavishly and can't live a life or something, He Yuzhu doesn't care, he has the ability to meet Wen Li's needs in these aspects.

He Yuzhu has begun to regard Wen Li as his own woman in his heart, he is not worried that Wen Li will be reluctant to marry him because of his identity as a cook, he is full of confidence in marrying Wen Li.

Because the three views of the original drama Chinese Li and Tong Zhi did not match, before marriage, the two did not spend much time together, and their personalities and interests were also very different, but in the end, they got married soon after knowing each other through introduction.

Moreover, Wen Li's married life is unhappy, and the various problems that broke out after marriage have caused more and more contradictions between the two, and at the worst time, Wen Li and Tong Zhi have even reached the point of divorce and disgust with each other, although they finally spent their lives together, but her life is generally unhappy.

Looking at the woman in front of him, He Yuzhu couldn't bear to let such a beautiful Wen Li experience that kind of life again.

He Yuzhu understands that although Wen Li is very demanding of the person she wants to marry, her attitude is not resolute, and it is easy to be changed, otherwise the original drama Chinese Li would not have married Wen Li under the persuasion of her family.

Thinking of this, He Yuzhu looked at Wen Li, who had come back to her senses, and said with a smile: "Hehe, Comrade Wen Li, you are the youngest daughter in the family, you must have been the most loved in the family since you were a child, right?"

"Yes, my parents and my eldest sister are very good to me. "

Looking at Wen Li with a smug face, He Yuzhu pretended to say suddenly: "No wonder, you must not have to do any work at home, and you don't need to come forward to solve problems at home, it is too good to be protected by your family, I don't know much about life, I am carefree, and I will fantasize about such a beautiful future life?"

Wen Li looked at He Yuzhu in surprise, she felt that such words should not be said by a cook? She couldn't help but say: "I don't feel like you are acting like a chef, and what you say is full of literary brilliance." "

He Yuzhu said very casually: "What's this, a person's knowledge level is not something that can be determined by a diploma." "

Just one sentence shocked Wen Li a lot, she had never heard such words before.

In her past cognition, a diploma represents a person's knowledge, after all, without a diploma, it means that a person has not received an orthodox education, and a person who does not go to school may have too much cultural knowledge.

Wen Li wanted to refute He Yuzhu's words, but before she could speak, she heard He Yuzhu say again: "The knowledge in books, as long as a person wants to read, he only needs to learn to read, that is, a person learns slowly, has to work hard, and after a long time, he will always learn."

Compared with the knowledge learned in school, the experience in society can teach a person more life principles.

There is no romance and mood in real married life, not only wind and snow, but more firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Especially after two people have lived for a long time, there is no secret to be familiar with each other, then there will definitely be no romance and passion in life, and the relationship will slowly become dull.

At that time, the two of them will continue to have conflicts because of various problems in their lives, and in that case, they will inevitably not be happy for the rest of their lives. "

Wen Li was shocked and didn't know what to say about He Yuzhu's words, she was smart and felt that these words were really reasonable, at this moment she felt in her heart that He Yuzhu didn't look like a cook at all, so she couldn't say it herself.

Wen Li couldn't help but become more curious about He Yuzhu, and of course her impression was better.

But Wenli thought that she had told He Yuzhu before that she didn't look down on a cook, and it would be too embarrassing if she was persuaded by a chef as a teacher.

So she was still a little unconvinced: "What you said seems to have some truth, but why can't the marriage be happy forever?

Hearing this, He Yuzhu looked at Wen Li with a calm face, and when he saw that she was just being watched by himself for a while, he turned his head a little weakly, and then he asked in a gentle tone: "Comrade Wen Li, your family is a scholarly family, your father is a cultural person, and your mother is also knowledgeable, so have you seen your parents talk about literature every day at home?"

Do they talk most about trivial things in life, or big things about your sisters and your family?"

In the face of He Yuzhu's inquiry, Wen Li seriously recalled the situation of her own family, and found that when her mother and father were at home, her father and mother talked about family affairs, and most of the time her mother was busy with housework or something, while her father was silently drinking tea or reading a book or something on the side, and his life was plain and happy.....

This made Wen Li suddenly realize that her parents seemed to be in love when they were together, but now that they have become like this, if they follow their own ideas, will they become like that in the future.

"Comrade Wen Li, what's wrong?"

After Wen Li, who was interrupted by He Yuzhu's question, came back to her senses, although she was a little reluctant, she didn't hide it: "My parents really rarely talk about literature or anything at home, and they talk more about family affairs. (If you read a violent novel, go to Feilu Novel Network!)

"Do you think your parents are happy?"

Wen Li said without thinking: "Of course I am happy." "

After speaking, Wen Li looked at the smile on He Yuzhu's face, and suddenly felt very uncomfortable, she said angrily: "What's the matter? Are you very proud? Do you think that I can't say that a teacher can say that you are a cook?"

Seeing that Wen Li was a little annoyed, He Yuzhu hurriedly explained: "No, no, no, what do I have to be proud of? I just want to tell you, you see, this is life."

Your parents were intellectuals, and I think when they first started, their lives were exactly what you would expect them to be, and they were probably full of romance and flirtatiousness at first.

But with the passage of time, 2.3 everything finally became dull, and I no longer talked about literature, but talked about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Do you have confidence that you will be able to surpass your parents in the future what they can't do?"

Speaking of this, He Yuzhu sighed again: "Marriage is not as romantic as you think, its essence is realistic and real."

Two people form a new family, then it is necessary to maintain the family can go on, which requires firewood, rice, oil and salt, money, a sense of responsibility and mutual understanding, not wind and snow, just by like-minded and so-called love can not last for a long time.

In the final analysis, people want to eat, and if they don't eat a meal, they will be hungry and panic. []

In the face of survival, everything else seems so pale, even if a person with a full stomach and rich economy has the strength and mood to talk about what kind of ups and downs!"