Be good, call me uncle

Chapter 1398. Does she understand?
After Xie Yun opened his mouth, Lu Mingyu and Chang Sun Tao could no longer pretend to be deaf and dumb.

So Lu Mingyu left Changsun Tao to Xie Yun and asked the two brothers to continue talking alone.

She first went to see Lu Yi and Ah Liu, and finally hesitated for a moment before arriving at Nangong Suisui's yard.

When she saw Nangong Suisui, Nangong Suisui was secretly wiping away tears. When he saw her arrival, he immediately put himself in a good mood to see her.

"Why are Yu'er here? You are a living person. You can ask someone to call me to find you. You don't have to come in person."

Lu Mingyu slowly sat down next to Nangong Suisui and sighed softly: "If I don't come, I'm afraid I will have to change my name for you."

Nangong Suisui's face paused and became slightly stiff: "Did Xie Yun ask you to come?"

Lu Mingyu nodded, but said softly: "He asked me to come, but I am not a lobbyist for him. I want to talk to you, only about the topic between us women."

Nangong Suisui lowered her eyelashes and looked a little lonely: "What is the topic between women? I have lived as a man for more than ten years, and until now I have not adapted to my identity as a woman."

Lu Mingyu smiled and said: "I think the difference between men and women is only physical, not personality and identity."

"What a man can do, a woman can do too; a woman can stand upright, and a man can be virtuous and virtuous."

"There shouldn't be any rules in this world that limit what kind of characters men and women should be and how they should live."

Nangong Suisui suddenly raised his eyes, seeming to be shocked by these words: "Yu'er is saying, even if we get married and I become someone else's wife, I don't have to be like the women in this world who care for their husbands, raise their children, wash their hands and make soup?"

Lu Mingyu answered her question very seriously: "Of course, you are just getting married and not a new student, so why can't you live like before?

"If getting married requires you to completely change another way, and that way is not acceptable to you, and this marriage will not make you happy, then there is no need to compromise yourself."

"Because you live a lively life, you can make great achievements in the fields you are good at, and you can use your talents to ensure that you have enough food and clothing. You don't need this marriage to provide you with a place to stay."

Nangong Suisui's shock remained, but tears filled his eyes.

She wiped it randomly, then took the tea cup and drank it in one gulp, then slammed the tea cup on the small table.

She said: "I like to travel around, I like to be unrestrained, I also like to eat a lot, drink a lot and eat meat. If I can do something, I will never talk nonsense. If I can break the opponent's leg, I will never just give him a slap!"

"This is how I have always survived, and I have never thought of another way of survival.

"Yu'er, I care about your second brother. Even if he asks me to die for him, I won't hesitate. I am willing to marry him and I am fully looking forward to it."

"But if after getting married, I have to live my life as a considerate and considerate wife, I have no confidence that I can do it well."

Lu Mingyu listened quietly, watching her covering her cheeks in confusion, watching her full of panic and powerlessness about the future.

Finally, Lu Mingyu stretched out his hand, gently placed it on the back of Nangong Suisui's hand, and held her trembling hand.

Lu Mingyu softened his voice and softened his tone: "Second sister-in-law, is this what second brother asks of you, or is it the future you imagined?"

Nangong Suisui lowered his head: "Actually, it's all my own problem. Xie Yun just asked me to calm down a little bit, but I couldn't control my wild thoughts."

Lu Mingyu did not mean to blame, but spoke to her with understanding: "Second sister-in-law, I understand your worries."

Catching Nangong Suisui's gaze, she continued: "Because of what happened to your mother, you are afraid of getting married from the bottom of your heart." "You are thinking, your mother is already very virtuous, why should you be treated like this by your father? , but you are so different from your mother, can you really live a peaceful life in the future?"

Nangong Suisui nodded: "Yu'er knows that this is indeed the case."

Lu Mingyu held her with both hands and said softly: "First of all, second brother is not that kind of person. You should trust your vision."

"What happened to Aunt Su was entirely because of the inhuman things she encountered. This has nothing to do with whether she is perfect or virtuous."

"Based on the various performances of the second brother, it seems that the second brother likes that kind of perfect daughter. This can be proved by the fact that in order to teach me how to behave, he set an example to me."

"But this does not mean that if a woman is not that kind of woman, she is not worthy of the second brother's respect. If the second brother insists on a gentle and virtuous woman, how could he be attracted to such a chivalrous and courageous second sister-in-law?"

Nangong Suisui was exposed to the central issue and collapsed on the small table: "I understand the truth, but...but I...I can't figure it out."

Lu Mingyu patted her back: "Second sister-in-law, my second brother decided to marry you because he wanted to give you a happy and warm home, not to restrict your freedom."

"If you are unhappy and unhappy, then it will violate the original intention of the two of you deciding to go on."

Nangong Suisui's tone was completely at a loss: "What should I do?"

Lu Mingyu said softly: "First of all, I believe that my second brother can be a good husband; secondly, I believe that I am worthy of being respected and cherished."

"I can't say that you can be as unrestrained as before after getting married, but you can definitely find a balance point."

"I told my second brother just now that husband and wife are partners in the same boat. To run a family, we need to support each other, and each of us needs to make corresponding sacrifices."

"And I think what the second brother should do is tolerate everything about you and work hard to become a qualified husband."

"What you should do is to make some concessions for your second brother while maintaining yourself."

"For example, you can still show off your skills in the mall, but as a wife, you have to treat your second brother as a good partner that you can work with for a lifetime, and run this family as a store with good prospects."

"Occasionally use words of care and provide companionship when he needs it. Together, you can maintain the existence of this family and discuss how all affairs should be divided."

"You can all maintain yourselves, and you can all have your own ideas and concepts, but in the end, in order for this store to continue operating, you will still need a method that is acceptable to both parties."

"But the so-called method acceptable to both parties does not have the best of both worlds. One party must make some concessions, or both parties must accommodate each other."

"As for who should make concessions and how to accommodate, both parties need to discuss and adjust with each other. At that time, you have to think about what benefits you want to get, and what concessions you will make for this purpose."

"Thinking about it this way, don't you think there is nothing scary about getting married, because what you are looking for is not an enemy, but a partner who will live together for a long time."

Nangong Suisui savored these words carefully for a long time, and finally raised his eyes suddenly: "Yu'er, are you saying that I can treat this marriage as a business?"

Lu Mingyu almost bit his tongue and committed suicide: "..."

Obviously she was just making a metaphor.

(End of this chapter)