A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character
Chapter 481 Contentment
Chapter 481 Contentment
When people value contentment, the most taboo thing is greed and insufficiency.
When the two children were young, Qin Yongjun's grandfather was willing to take them around, and he was considered a familiar face.But when the child gets older and starts going to school, he won't do this anymore.
The Qin family's current situation is in decline, which is understandable. No family will always be in a high position.But the problem is that the Qin family is not only in decline, but also has no successors. Whether it is the second or third generation, there are no outstanding people.
Under such circumstances, in addition to giving part of the family's resources to the successors of their own power, even less will fall on their own family members.
Because you have no successor, many favors are used once and rarely.
Qin Yongjun had a wonderful thought, but the family's resources would not fall on the two children.
After the meal, grandma He Yingxiu and Qin Yongjun explained everything to Qin Yongjun bit by bit. The two old people are now older, and they are just mascots in many cases.
Most of the time, Qin Yongjun's grandparents were forcibly supporting him. The family needed Qin Yongjun's grandfather to support the entire family. But age aside, Qin Yongjun's uncle Qin Baoguo would still be in charge of the Qin family in the future.
As for Zhang Lan and Qin Yongjun's two children, it is okay to become familiar with the Qin family in the future, but if Qin Yongjun wants to use this to plan the future for the children step by step, there will be no hope.
Qin Yongjun understands very well that after decades of stable and peaceful society, it is extremely difficult for ordinary people to get ahead.
Even in the kindergarten for two children, if Qin Yongjun's grandfather wasn't behind it and the people in charge of Zhang Lan were kind, it would have been impossible to enroll in the kindergarten based on just one household registration.
Kindergarten is okay, but wait until after elementary school and then want to enroll in school. Ordinary families should not have this fantasy.In the report, there was a child who was admitted to the so-called ordinary residents of the nearby community, but among those residents who can meet the conditions within the rules, it will not matter which one will be there later.
If you are just an ordinary person, that's it. If you have never experienced those things, you will naturally have no idea.
But only after experiencing it can you know how big the difference is between inside the threshold and outside the threshold. A simple sentence from others can run faster than you have been working hard for several months.
After Qin Yongjun explained the reason intermittently, Wen Ran didn't say anything. Zhang Lan sighed and said helplessly: "What's the reason? It turns out that I feel that our two children have no future. I have said it before. The future of our children is up to them. If we parents are able to pave the way, we can pave the way for them. If we are not, it is up to them. You can still control them for the rest of their lives."
"You always say that. If you don't say anything else, just talk about the children going to school, you have to find someone to tell them. But if my father hadn't called later, do you think the two children would have entered school so smoothly? You are a parent. The parents of the children in the event are participating for the sake of their children, and they don’t all know the background of the parents behind them." Qin Yongjun said dissatisfied.
Zhang Lan quickly stretched out her hand: "Stop, this topic does not need to be discussed. I don't understand why you are so obsessed with your child becoming a politician. And even if your child wants to enter politics in the future, why are you working so hard now? How old is this child? ah."
Qin Yongjun smiled bitterly and said to Wen Ran next to him: "Look, this is why I feel there is no hope. Zhang Lan doesn't understand the meaning of this at all."
Wen Ran comforted him at the side: "Actually, it's nothing. Look, I rely on Zhang Lan to get up now. Although it is true that most people in the circle are about relationships, people with ability cannot hide it." Then Wen Ran said to Zhang Lan: "What Yongjun means is not a school problem, but the children's classmates and alumni along the way. If the children work in politics here in Kyoto after graduation, often they only need to talk to their classmates to do something. Just say hello.”
Zhang Lan nodded: "I know this. Nowadays, even if you want to have a relationship, you have to get to know each other first. Even if you have a relationship with a stranger, no one will accept it. But I still feel that there is no need to push the child too hard. Ordinary civil servants will not talk about it. Well, reaching a high position depends more on the child’s personal ability. As for the power behind it, it will come naturally if the child is capable.”
Qin Yongjun snorted and said: "You have the ability. Now you have the ability but no background. If others can suppress you, you won't be able to turn around until you retire."
Zhang Lan did not argue with Qin Yongjun. After knowing that Qin Yongjun was worried about not having the Qin family to rely on for his children's future, Zhang Lan was too lazy to care about these things anymore.
Lu Qian was playing with her two children in the yard. Zhang Lan stood up and stood by the floor-to-ceiling window. Looking at the two children playing outside, she turned around and said to Qin Yongjun: "I will say it for the last time today. Regarding the future of the children, now the two If a child is ignorant, then he won't talk. I don't care which direction you educate them. Once they start to remember things and have preferences, you can't forcefully correct their choices at that time."
Seeing Qin Yongjun's indignation, Zhang Lan shook his head and said, "It's your business to have your ideals, but you can't impose your regrets on your child. The child's surname is Zhang, not Qin. I think what grandpa did is right."
While Qin Yongjun was dissatisfied with the Qin family's actions, Zhang Lan found it quite understandable.If it's a grandson, that's fine. The great-grandson also wants to use the family's resources. For this person with a foreign surname two generations apart, even if Qin Yongjun's grandfather is willing, the rest of the Qin family will not agree.
Moreover, interests are relative. Zhang Lan cannot bring much help to people except in medicine.
Compared with Zhang Lan's famous medical skills, a large family of traditional Chinese medicine may give people a more respectful feeling.
Things come in a hurry, and Qin Yongjun is too impatient now.In other words, she already had some understanding of Zhang Lan's abilities and naturally put her own position in it.
But in the eyes of outsiders, Qin Yongjun just married a man from a rural family. He had some ability to make money, but not much else.Why do you think you can put yourself back to your original position?
Qin Yongjun was originally Qin Zhenhua's granddaughter, but after marrying Zhang Lan, except for the identity of granddaughter, other things naturally ceased to exist.
But as long as Zhang Lan has the ability and money, it's okay for Qin Yongjun to return to the circle. After all, you've been there before, so you can be familiar with it now.
If you want to do something, you need something exchangeable from Qin Yongjun at this time. The Qin family can protect you from wind and rain at this time, but they will not come forward to support you.
Compared with Qin Yongjun, who was the party involved, and did not understand the reason, Wen Ran, who was watching, quickly figured out and understood Qin Yongjun's tangled thoughts during the chat.
(End of this chapter)
When people value contentment, the most taboo thing is greed and insufficiency.
When the two children were young, Qin Yongjun's grandfather was willing to take them around, and he was considered a familiar face.But when the child gets older and starts going to school, he won't do this anymore.
The Qin family's current situation is in decline, which is understandable. No family will always be in a high position.But the problem is that the Qin family is not only in decline, but also has no successors. Whether it is the second or third generation, there are no outstanding people.
Under such circumstances, in addition to giving part of the family's resources to the successors of their own power, even less will fall on their own family members.
Because you have no successor, many favors are used once and rarely.
Qin Yongjun had a wonderful thought, but the family's resources would not fall on the two children.
After the meal, grandma He Yingxiu and Qin Yongjun explained everything to Qin Yongjun bit by bit. The two old people are now older, and they are just mascots in many cases.
Most of the time, Qin Yongjun's grandparents were forcibly supporting him. The family needed Qin Yongjun's grandfather to support the entire family. But age aside, Qin Yongjun's uncle Qin Baoguo would still be in charge of the Qin family in the future.
As for Zhang Lan and Qin Yongjun's two children, it is okay to become familiar with the Qin family in the future, but if Qin Yongjun wants to use this to plan the future for the children step by step, there will be no hope.
Qin Yongjun understands very well that after decades of stable and peaceful society, it is extremely difficult for ordinary people to get ahead.
Even in the kindergarten for two children, if Qin Yongjun's grandfather wasn't behind it and the people in charge of Zhang Lan were kind, it would have been impossible to enroll in the kindergarten based on just one household registration.
Kindergarten is okay, but wait until after elementary school and then want to enroll in school. Ordinary families should not have this fantasy.In the report, there was a child who was admitted to the so-called ordinary residents of the nearby community, but among those residents who can meet the conditions within the rules, it will not matter which one will be there later.
If you are just an ordinary person, that's it. If you have never experienced those things, you will naturally have no idea.
But only after experiencing it can you know how big the difference is between inside the threshold and outside the threshold. A simple sentence from others can run faster than you have been working hard for several months.
After Qin Yongjun explained the reason intermittently, Wen Ran didn't say anything. Zhang Lan sighed and said helplessly: "What's the reason? It turns out that I feel that our two children have no future. I have said it before. The future of our children is up to them. If we parents are able to pave the way, we can pave the way for them. If we are not, it is up to them. You can still control them for the rest of their lives."
"You always say that. If you don't say anything else, just talk about the children going to school, you have to find someone to tell them. But if my father hadn't called later, do you think the two children would have entered school so smoothly? You are a parent. The parents of the children in the event are participating for the sake of their children, and they don’t all know the background of the parents behind them." Qin Yongjun said dissatisfied.
Zhang Lan quickly stretched out her hand: "Stop, this topic does not need to be discussed. I don't understand why you are so obsessed with your child becoming a politician. And even if your child wants to enter politics in the future, why are you working so hard now? How old is this child? ah."
Qin Yongjun smiled bitterly and said to Wen Ran next to him: "Look, this is why I feel there is no hope. Zhang Lan doesn't understand the meaning of this at all."
Wen Ran comforted him at the side: "Actually, it's nothing. Look, I rely on Zhang Lan to get up now. Although it is true that most people in the circle are about relationships, people with ability cannot hide it." Then Wen Ran said to Zhang Lan: "What Yongjun means is not a school problem, but the children's classmates and alumni along the way. If the children work in politics here in Kyoto after graduation, often they only need to talk to their classmates to do something. Just say hello.”
Zhang Lan nodded: "I know this. Nowadays, even if you want to have a relationship, you have to get to know each other first. Even if you have a relationship with a stranger, no one will accept it. But I still feel that there is no need to push the child too hard. Ordinary civil servants will not talk about it. Well, reaching a high position depends more on the child’s personal ability. As for the power behind it, it will come naturally if the child is capable.”
Qin Yongjun snorted and said: "You have the ability. Now you have the ability but no background. If others can suppress you, you won't be able to turn around until you retire."
Zhang Lan did not argue with Qin Yongjun. After knowing that Qin Yongjun was worried about not having the Qin family to rely on for his children's future, Zhang Lan was too lazy to care about these things anymore.
Lu Qian was playing with her two children in the yard. Zhang Lan stood up and stood by the floor-to-ceiling window. Looking at the two children playing outside, she turned around and said to Qin Yongjun: "I will say it for the last time today. Regarding the future of the children, now the two If a child is ignorant, then he won't talk. I don't care which direction you educate them. Once they start to remember things and have preferences, you can't forcefully correct their choices at that time."
Seeing Qin Yongjun's indignation, Zhang Lan shook his head and said, "It's your business to have your ideals, but you can't impose your regrets on your child. The child's surname is Zhang, not Qin. I think what grandpa did is right."
While Qin Yongjun was dissatisfied with the Qin family's actions, Zhang Lan found it quite understandable.If it's a grandson, that's fine. The great-grandson also wants to use the family's resources. For this person with a foreign surname two generations apart, even if Qin Yongjun's grandfather is willing, the rest of the Qin family will not agree.
Moreover, interests are relative. Zhang Lan cannot bring much help to people except in medicine.
Compared with Zhang Lan's famous medical skills, a large family of traditional Chinese medicine may give people a more respectful feeling.
Things come in a hurry, and Qin Yongjun is too impatient now.In other words, she already had some understanding of Zhang Lan's abilities and naturally put her own position in it.
But in the eyes of outsiders, Qin Yongjun just married a man from a rural family. He had some ability to make money, but not much else.Why do you think you can put yourself back to your original position?
Qin Yongjun was originally Qin Zhenhua's granddaughter, but after marrying Zhang Lan, except for the identity of granddaughter, other things naturally ceased to exist.
But as long as Zhang Lan has the ability and money, it's okay for Qin Yongjun to return to the circle. After all, you've been there before, so you can be familiar with it now.
If you want to do something, you need something exchangeable from Qin Yongjun at this time. The Qin family can protect you from wind and rain at this time, but they will not come forward to support you.
Compared with Qin Yongjun, who was the party involved, and did not understand the reason, Wen Ran, who was watching, quickly figured out and understood Qin Yongjun's tangled thoughts during the chat.
(End of this chapter)
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