A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

Chapter 428 Laughing Thoughts

What the bloggers mean implicitly is that the gap between rich and poor in society is widening. Being at the top is fine, but being in the middle class must pay attention to your class, and being at the bottom must pay attention when climbing up. Look at you. Is the road we are on the same road that our predecessors have traveled before?

When you live in a safe and peaceful society, and you are at the bottom, and you decide to climb up to improve your class, you are extremely talented, and your IQ and EQ are beyond ordinary people. , sooner or later you will have a good time.

But if you are ordinary in everything, your learning ability is ordinary, your social skills are ordinary, and your appearance is ordinary.At this time, if you still want to improve your class, then this society will be very cruel.

When you plan to lie down, everything may be comfortable, but if you want to work hard, the first hurdle is your parents.

It is best for your parents to be ordinary, or you need to prepare them with the ability to resist risks.

Otherwise, when you have worked hard for a long time and plan to buy a house in a better area to start a family, then unfortunately, due to years of fatigue and not paying attention to the body, they become seriously ill.

So the first preparation you need to make is to get your parents settled and don't ask them to help you, but at least don't let you fall short at the critical moment.

Then comes marriage. For an ordinary person, marriage is the beginning of his second destiny. A good family and a bad family are completely different concepts.

At this time, if you are not able to fall in love on your own and plan to start a blind date, then at this time, in addition to professional matchmaker agencies, most of the people who can really introduce you are well-matched, so you need to choose more.

Since it is a blind date, love must come second.In other words, the first thing you need to consider is her family and her own living situation.

Most of the things that are said in the proverbs of society are best avoided if they can be avoided.You are not a rich person, and a second chance is very expensive. It is best to give it once for a lifetime.

Only after getting married did I realize that most of what my relatives said to me back then made sense.

Maybe their education level is not high, but most of the time things like marriage have nothing to do with culture.Although their feelings are different in circumstances, they are essentially the same.

Zhang Lan also slowly understood that getting married early is the most accurate truth.

When your family is capable and you can get married earlier, it is better to get married earlier.When you have just graduated from college or someone has just introduced you to someone, you must seize this moment.

Because the person introduced to you at this time is the person with the best conditions that you can meet in the future if your life does not change significantly.

In marriage, people cannot be greedy.It is undeniable that as you progress, you may meet better and better people.But there is a fact that the more times you go on blind dates, you will slowly find that each one you meet will be worse than the last one.

A person's life is divided into stages. You should do something at what age. Maybe you don't have the conditions at this time, but if everything can still be discussed, then it is best to do it.

For example, when you are at an age where you are studying, even if you make a million dollars a year in a side job, it is still best to study in the classroom when you are at an age where you can learn.

Only those who have set foot in society understand that when you step out of campus, if you want to concentrate on your studies at this time, you will never encounter the same environment as before.

The example mentioned here is that most of the time, people nowadays are very particular about survivor bias, especially in the era of short videos, this phenomenon is even more serious.

Among all kinds of information, most of the time, you will only care about those successful cases or unfortunate cases.But in real life, what you see in the video is already very rare to encounter.The Internet is full of people who make millions and tens of millions every year, and in social data statistics, you will find that a monthly income of [-] yuan can actually exceed the average person.

And if you can earn more than [-] yuan a month, you have surpassed most people.

This society is neither as good nor as bad as imagined.You live your own life. In today's peaceful social environment, you have actually surpassed billions of people in your copy of the earth.

The 100 million treatment fee paid by Qi Dongming was credited to his account. Zhang Lan called Feng Yuzhi and said that Feng Yuzhi was very busy now as the end of the year was approaching.

For the sake of her two children who have just entered kindergarten, Zhang Lan heard that she took on the accounting affairs of several companies.Now that we are at the end of the year, the audit and account submission starts before New Year’s Day, and we are busy every day without touching the ground.

There is nothing going on at Zhang Lan's acupuncture clinic. He passes the hospital for consultation, and fewer and fewer patients are being seen in private.

Originally, when the acupuncture parlor was open, Feng Yuzhi had to check the accounts once a week or two, but now it only takes two or three days a month to check them.

The main reason is that Wen Ran sometimes needs to check, otherwise apart from paying taxes, Zhang Lan basically has nothing to do.

Selling medicines is mainly the work of Qin Yongjun. Most of the time, Zhang Lan is just a provider of medicines. He is only responsible for giving medicines to Qin Yongjun. He doesn't care about anything else.

Others have said that Zhang Lan formed a special asset management team to take charge of the property issues of the couple.

After Zhang Lan thought for a while, he rejected the proposal.For so-called asset management, family funds.It cannot be said that it is useless, but Zhang Lan feels that she has not reached that point yet.

Or maybe I won’t be able to use it in this life, but maybe I will need it in the next generation.

Today is different from the past. You cannot expect people in this developed society to adhere to certain things as firmly as in the past.

There was a very simple thing that Zhang Lan found incredible.

Among the many current thoughts in society that advocate lying down, one very special argument is that when I get old, I will go to a nursing home or commit suicide directly.

There is also a thought that if I earn my own money and spend it myself, I will enjoy happiness without having children or grandchildren.

What Zhang Lan finds unbelievable is that with this kind of thinking, if you don't believe that your children and grandchildren will be filial in the future, why would you believe that when you get old, those in the nursing home will respect you, a lonely old man with no one behind you?As for the so-called contract, if the contract can protect everyone, then it is not called a contract.

As for the so-called self-determination theory, if you have this determination when you are old, then you will not have such a statement in your mouth when you are young.

Real departure is always silent, and those loud voices are mostly just words.And those who have made up their minds will only be there for a quiet time, and you will never see them again.

(End of this chapter)