Taoyuan Little Miracle Doctor
Chapter 1005 Confidence, humility and indifference
Chapter 1005 Confidence, humility and indifference
Seeing Wang Chen's humble look, Xiao Liu smiled and shook his head: "Others' help is indeed an important factor, but the reason why you can succeed depends more on your own strength and efforts.
You know, mud can't hold up a wall. If you don't have the strength and don't work hard, then even if Mr. Lin and the others try their best to help you, they may not be able to give you the strength you have today. "
Wang Chen suddenly smiled: "But isn't it said on the Internet that pigs can climb trees as long as the wind is strong enough?"
Wang Chen has a very clear understanding of himself.
In the past six months, he has indeed accomplished things that many people may not be able to do in more than ten years.
And this is indeed inseparable from his personal efforts and accumulated strength, but, in his opinion,
Without the help of Lin Sen, Director Liang, Xiao Tiantian, Tong Lei and others, no matter how strong he was and how hard he worked, it would be difficult to achieve what he has achieved now.
By saying these words, Wang Chen is not belittling himself.
But he knows very well that in this life, time is often destiny.
Timing is very important, and so is fate.
Without meeting a specific noble person at a specific time, it will be difficult to accomplish what you want to do.
Therefore, the reason for success should be due to various factors.
If we have to talk about a ratio, it should be what a certain master fortune teller said: [-]% hard work and [-]% luck.
And this seven points of luck often refers to catching up with a good time and meeting a good person.
However, Xiao Liu also had objections to his idea.
Xiaoliu shrugged and said: "There is indeed this sentence on the Internet, but some people who eat melon only saw the first half of the sentence and did not expect the second half.
When the wind is strong enough, it can indeed make pigs fly into the sky, but have you ever thought about it. If the pig does not grow wings, then when the wind falls, it will be smashed into a pile of rotten meat.
You, Wang Chen, are not a pig, but an eagle soaring in the sky. Your success is indeed inseparable from the help of Mr. Lin and others.
But most of the time their help is just teaching people how to fish. To put it simply, they just teach you how to do it, or give you a step up.
And if you can do all of this later, it all depends on your own strength. "
With that said, Xiao Liu patted Wang Chen on the shoulder: "In the past, we always said that you were too kind, but you gradually understood the true meaning of our words.
I have gradually gotten rid of some bad habits, and now, I will send you a few more words. "
Wang Chen turned to look at Xiao Liu, his face filled with a look of attentiveness.
Xiaoliu said loudly: "People of different levels will encounter different levels of occasions and different levels of environments.
And when you move from the level of poverty to the next level, you will find that the people around you and what they say are very different from before.
Maybe, there will be people who will fawn over you, may hate you because they are jealous of everything you have, or even try to harm you.
At this time, what you need to do is not to forgive everyone with a kind heart, nor to completely deny your own efforts with a humble attitude.
You should use eight points of self-confidence and two points of ruthlessness to deal with those who harm you and those who slander you. You should also use seven points of self-confidence, two points of humility and one point of indifference to deal with those who flatter you. "
Hearing this, Wang Chen frowned slightly: "I can probably understand what you mean by what you said. But I still don't quite understand the last two sentences."
Xiaoliu smiled: "Suppose you and I are new acquaintances, and I curry favor with you because I learned about your current achievements. How would you respond?" Wang Chen replied: "If you are someone you can be friends with, then Just be friends and help each other, but if you don't want to be friends with someone, then... just say no?"
Xiao Liu smiled and said: "What if I am good at disguise and show myself to be a completely good person?"
"This……"
Seeing that Wang Chen was hesitant to speak, Xiao Liu said solemnly: "As the old saying goes, you know the person but not the heart. You never know what is going on in the heart of a person who smiles on the surface.
What if I pretend to be very good on the surface, and then after gaining your trust and your help, I suddenly stab you in the back when you are not prepared, just to trick you? "
Wang Chen scratched his head: "I haven't thought about this."
Xiaoliu waved his hand: "The reason why you haven't thought about this is because you are still in contact with acquaintances in our circle, you haven't come into contact with too many outsiders, and you haven't been hurt like the examples I gave.
But things will be different after that. As your career advances, the circle of contacts you have begins to expand and increase, and you will meet all kinds of people.
By then, it will be difficult for you to tell whether they are genuine or not, and you will be easily deceived and deceived by them.
Just like your car trade city, after you start it, you will deal with customers who buy cars, and you will also deal with colleagues who come after you.
Customers may not harm you, but at most they will quarrel with you over thousands or hundreds of dollars, but it is different with your peers.
They are for more benefits, and they can do anything for the sake of profit.
Therefore, at this time, if someone comes up to flatter you, you must remember that while remaining humble, you must have a kind of confidence that makes others look up to you, and you must also have a sense of indifference.
Only in this way will they feel that you are unfathomable and find it difficult to harm you, so they will begin to be jealous of you, or even fear you.
As for those who want to harm you, you have to deal with them with confidence and give them a sense of momentum that you have a chance to win. In addition, you also need to be a bit ruthless. This ruthlessness may not necessarily help. You solve the problem, but it definitely saves you a lot of little trouble. "
Wang Chen nodded thoughtfully: "I probably understand."
Xiaoliu smiled and said: "Don't worry, you have just entered this level, there must be many things you don't understand.
Take your time, just like we taught you at the beginning. Through your experience and practice again and again, you will eventually transform. "
Wang Chen smiled and said: "Thank you, Sixth Brother, I have remembered everything you said."
Xiaoliu said: "We are buddies, you are getting better and better, I am really happy for you, and I really don't want you to encounter any big setbacks.
And since I don’t have the tyrannical power of Mr. Lin and others, all I can do to help you is these few truths. "
Wang Chen smiled: "These principles are also very important to me."
"Crench!"
While the two were chatting, Zhang Hu and Liu Shitou had also parked in front of them.
Seeing the two people walking down, Xiao Liu said: "Okay, I've said all that needs to be said, let's get down to business."
(End of this chapter)
Seeing Wang Chen's humble look, Xiao Liu smiled and shook his head: "Others' help is indeed an important factor, but the reason why you can succeed depends more on your own strength and efforts.
You know, mud can't hold up a wall. If you don't have the strength and don't work hard, then even if Mr. Lin and the others try their best to help you, they may not be able to give you the strength you have today. "
Wang Chen suddenly smiled: "But isn't it said on the Internet that pigs can climb trees as long as the wind is strong enough?"
Wang Chen has a very clear understanding of himself.
In the past six months, he has indeed accomplished things that many people may not be able to do in more than ten years.
And this is indeed inseparable from his personal efforts and accumulated strength, but, in his opinion,
Without the help of Lin Sen, Director Liang, Xiao Tiantian, Tong Lei and others, no matter how strong he was and how hard he worked, it would be difficult to achieve what he has achieved now.
By saying these words, Wang Chen is not belittling himself.
But he knows very well that in this life, time is often destiny.
Timing is very important, and so is fate.
Without meeting a specific noble person at a specific time, it will be difficult to accomplish what you want to do.
Therefore, the reason for success should be due to various factors.
If we have to talk about a ratio, it should be what a certain master fortune teller said: [-]% hard work and [-]% luck.
And this seven points of luck often refers to catching up with a good time and meeting a good person.
However, Xiao Liu also had objections to his idea.
Xiaoliu shrugged and said: "There is indeed this sentence on the Internet, but some people who eat melon only saw the first half of the sentence and did not expect the second half.
When the wind is strong enough, it can indeed make pigs fly into the sky, but have you ever thought about it. If the pig does not grow wings, then when the wind falls, it will be smashed into a pile of rotten meat.
You, Wang Chen, are not a pig, but an eagle soaring in the sky. Your success is indeed inseparable from the help of Mr. Lin and others.
But most of the time their help is just teaching people how to fish. To put it simply, they just teach you how to do it, or give you a step up.
And if you can do all of this later, it all depends on your own strength. "
With that said, Xiao Liu patted Wang Chen on the shoulder: "In the past, we always said that you were too kind, but you gradually understood the true meaning of our words.
I have gradually gotten rid of some bad habits, and now, I will send you a few more words. "
Wang Chen turned to look at Xiao Liu, his face filled with a look of attentiveness.
Xiaoliu said loudly: "People of different levels will encounter different levels of occasions and different levels of environments.
And when you move from the level of poverty to the next level, you will find that the people around you and what they say are very different from before.
Maybe, there will be people who will fawn over you, may hate you because they are jealous of everything you have, or even try to harm you.
At this time, what you need to do is not to forgive everyone with a kind heart, nor to completely deny your own efforts with a humble attitude.
You should use eight points of self-confidence and two points of ruthlessness to deal with those who harm you and those who slander you. You should also use seven points of self-confidence, two points of humility and one point of indifference to deal with those who flatter you. "
Hearing this, Wang Chen frowned slightly: "I can probably understand what you mean by what you said. But I still don't quite understand the last two sentences."
Xiaoliu smiled: "Suppose you and I are new acquaintances, and I curry favor with you because I learned about your current achievements. How would you respond?" Wang Chen replied: "If you are someone you can be friends with, then Just be friends and help each other, but if you don't want to be friends with someone, then... just say no?"
Xiao Liu smiled and said: "What if I am good at disguise and show myself to be a completely good person?"
"This……"
Seeing that Wang Chen was hesitant to speak, Xiao Liu said solemnly: "As the old saying goes, you know the person but not the heart. You never know what is going on in the heart of a person who smiles on the surface.
What if I pretend to be very good on the surface, and then after gaining your trust and your help, I suddenly stab you in the back when you are not prepared, just to trick you? "
Wang Chen scratched his head: "I haven't thought about this."
Xiaoliu waved his hand: "The reason why you haven't thought about this is because you are still in contact with acquaintances in our circle, you haven't come into contact with too many outsiders, and you haven't been hurt like the examples I gave.
But things will be different after that. As your career advances, the circle of contacts you have begins to expand and increase, and you will meet all kinds of people.
By then, it will be difficult for you to tell whether they are genuine or not, and you will be easily deceived and deceived by them.
Just like your car trade city, after you start it, you will deal with customers who buy cars, and you will also deal with colleagues who come after you.
Customers may not harm you, but at most they will quarrel with you over thousands or hundreds of dollars, but it is different with your peers.
They are for more benefits, and they can do anything for the sake of profit.
Therefore, at this time, if someone comes up to flatter you, you must remember that while remaining humble, you must have a kind of confidence that makes others look up to you, and you must also have a sense of indifference.
Only in this way will they feel that you are unfathomable and find it difficult to harm you, so they will begin to be jealous of you, or even fear you.
As for those who want to harm you, you have to deal with them with confidence and give them a sense of momentum that you have a chance to win. In addition, you also need to be a bit ruthless. This ruthlessness may not necessarily help. You solve the problem, but it definitely saves you a lot of little trouble. "
Wang Chen nodded thoughtfully: "I probably understand."
Xiaoliu smiled and said: "Don't worry, you have just entered this level, there must be many things you don't understand.
Take your time, just like we taught you at the beginning. Through your experience and practice again and again, you will eventually transform. "
Wang Chen smiled and said: "Thank you, Sixth Brother, I have remembered everything you said."
Xiaoliu said: "We are buddies, you are getting better and better, I am really happy for you, and I really don't want you to encounter any big setbacks.
And since I don’t have the tyrannical power of Mr. Lin and others, all I can do to help you is these few truths. "
Wang Chen smiled: "These principles are also very important to me."
"Crench!"
While the two were chatting, Zhang Hu and Liu Shitou had also parked in front of them.
Seeing the two people walking down, Xiao Liu said: "Okay, I've said all that needs to be said, let's get down to business."
(End of this chapter)
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