Life is like a play

Yan said tentatively, "Mom, it seems that Aunt Liu doesn't like me, she prefers Xiaomei ......."

"You girl still knows, what, I'm afraid in the face of difficulties, you should review and review, why Aunt Liu likes Xiaomei. Zhang's mother wanted to persuade her daughter to go with the flow, because it is not easy for Xiaoyan to work hard alone these years, her daughter is rare to come back, and the pain is still painful, so she is willing to nag and count her daughter's badness, but after thinking about it, she can't take care of her daughter for a lifetime, and there are some things that her daughter should learn to take care of herself, or she is too used to the child now, but she will harm the child in the future.

"Hey, what's the big deal, doesn't Mei know how to live better than me, she knows how to do housework better than me......" Obviously, Yan was a little lacking in confidence when he spoke.

"Is it that simple, isn't there any other reason?" Zhang's mother asked, urging her daughter to continue thinking.

"And ......," Iwa said slowly as he thought about it, "and her mouth is sweeter than mine," he pouted as he spoke.

"It's good if you understand, live a life of food, clothing, housing and transportation, no matter what you do in the future, no matter how great your skills are, daily life is the first priority. In the past, you were busy studying, and then you were busy working, and we never let you share these housework, but life skills should not be underestimated, if you live alone in this world, if you can't even take care of yourself, what kind of social responsibility do you talk about," Zhang's mother paused for a while and continued, "I have heard people say such a thing before, I don't know if it is true or not, it is said that a college student came back from an outing, and my mother asked her, 'I gave you boiled eggs, put them in your bag, why didn't you eat them?' The daughter replied, 'The egg shell is so hard, I can't bite it.'" The daughter replied so neatly that her mother was speechless for a long time. "

"Whew-", Iwa smiled, "I have also heard of such an incident, about two college students who climbed the mountain, and when the thunder hit, they hid under a big tree and were killed by thunder."

"Yes, although they are college students, they lack common sense of life, and even children in our countryside know that they can't climb mountains with thunder, let alone hide under big trees, which is very dangerous. Zhang's mother replied after hearing this.

"I see, I'm going to ask you tonight to learn how to cook, to learn how to work as a woman...... , learn the same way, and slowly make up for all the homework needed for daily life that has been left behind over the years, isn't that still possible? Zhang Yan couldn't bear to be so old, and let his parents worry about him anymore, so he deliberately said sensibly.

Zhang's mother listened, thinking that her daughter was worthy of seeing the world, and she was very happy, and continued with a smile: "Two people live together, they need to understand each other, why is Xiaomei sweet, because she knows what the other party is thinking, so she pays attention to each other's psychology when she speaks, and considers others in case of trouble, so she is popular, and everyone praises her." While listening to his mother's teachings, Yan kept nodding, "You have to be like Xiaomei, understand each other, and consider problems from the other party's point of view, so that there will be fewer disputes and fewer family conflicts." "

"Yes, if everyone can think like this, and everyone understands this truth, then how can so many young people embark on the road of divorce. Although Yan Koushang didn't say anything, he admired his mother very much in his heart, but he didn't expect his mother, a rural woman, to teach herself such a lesson in small talk, which was really profound and benefited me a lot.