South China Sea Myth

When you see a boulder that looks like a wooden boat, with Yin Zhikui's handwritten ancient poem "Stone Boat" on it, "Immortal Voyage of the Ages", you can't help but board the stone boat. Looking at the sea 30 meters below, the waves crashing on the shore, and the sails racing, you will feel the artistic conception of poetry, and there is a life experience like riding the wind and waves.

Li Ping said: "By the way, our activity this time is a love myth experience tour. We talk about love, but also about the emotions of contact. When it comes to human emotions, I think of the love of parents for their children, and the pity of parents all over the world. Parents all over the world do not remain immobile with their children

Their hearts are chewed to the bone for the love of children. "

Yang Yang said: "But why do you say that the stick beats the filial son? If you beat a child with a stick, doesn't he hate you?

Do I don't understand you? "

Budon Buston, a professor of psychology, said, "I want to talk a little bit about my own experience. Ever since I was a child, I loved to draw with colored pens. But what I can't tolerate is that I don't draw on paper, but on sheets. Such a habit is really hard to accept. My parents, together with me, forced me to draw on paper. However, my brush is still painted on the sheets, and it is colored pen. When my parents saw this, they were angry. My father dragged me into the living room, but I ran into the room. He stopped me and threatened: If you draw on the sheets again, Dad will be angry and will beat you! But after all, he didn't really do it, and I didn't care at all. The mother was anxious in the living room and said angrily: "If you want to fight, you can really fight, your son has become so used to it!"

Originally, my father was trying to scare me, but now, my father was stimulated and felt that it was not okay not to fight, so he grabbed my arm, dragged me in front of me, turned me sideways, and slapped me in the ass. Despite the pain, I still have a hippie smile and tenacity: I still have to draw on the sheets. Father's new method, simply pick up a wooden ruler, I hit it without giving in, three or four times in a row, each time harder and harder. Finally, my butt felt unbearable pain, and my father said to my mother, "The wooden ruler is discounted." "

As soon as I heard this, I immediately opened my mouth and cried "wow". My parents let me cry. I was tired of crying, so I stopped crying. However, from then on, I never dared to draw on the sheets with colored pens again, and my butt hurt for two days. The ancients said: "It seems that there is a certain reason for the stick to hit the filial son." It is true that educating children should not be overly obedient and casual, those who should be serious should be serious, and those who should be criticized should be criticized, if they are really disobedient, what does it matter if they are beaten. Otherwise, in the long run, children will not distinguish between right and wrong, do whatever they want, and it is easy to develop bad habits, which cannot be corrected when they grow up, resulting in nothing. The trunk is straight from a young age, straight when it grows up, curved from a young age, and straight when it grows up. People are crooked, waste wood, trees are crooked, maybe it's still a landscape. "

According to Dr. Myth, the "stick beating" here does not really mean beating with a stick, but rather harsh discipline. He said, "My mother said, hit a child, don't hit the head." When I was a child, when I saw my brother disobedient, my father hit him on the head with his fist, and as a result, my brother had a nosebleed. So where to beat, spanking, there is a lot of meat there, and it is not easy to hurt the muscles and bones. Of course, it's okay to play a few times once in a while, but it won't be effective if you play too much. The main thing is verbal education, and corporal punishment at every turn will force out the child's rebellious psychology. In this way, the more you don't want your child to do it, the more he will do it. Some people say that 'sticking out filial piety' is the experience summed up by the ancients. Some people say, 'Sticking out filial piety is not beyond today's society.' I will say: if a child, stealing from a young child, in a situation where no matter how much preaching is useless, he should hit it.

Budon went on to say, "My uncle's daughter, I should call my cousin." Her parents died when she was a child, and she lived with my mother's sister, my little aunt. The little aunt treats people very strictly, scolding her cousin at every turn, and beating her at every turn. My little aunt was very smart, she never went to school, but after she learned the alphabet, she bought a dictionary and learned to know more than 2,000 words. When I was doing farm work in the countryside, my little aunt used to read the newspaper to the villagers.

There was a witch who gave her a book on cults. The book says that if a dog barks in the middle of the night, it means that someone has come to hook the soul. At this time, if you hang yourself, you can go to heaven after death. As a result, my aunt heard the dog barking at night and hanged herself on a rope after bathing. Left with my cousin, struggling to get by. My cousin hated my aunt for beating her at first, and after a long time, resentment turned into longing, and she understood her aunt's hard work. Now, my cousin treats her aunts with great respect. She said that I was filial to the elderly, and it was my little aunt who typed it.

However, after her cousin got married, she treated her only son with all kinds of love. When my son was 18 years old, he woke up in the morning, and he didn't want to get up, so his mother would bring him breakfast in front of the bed and feed him bite by bite. As a result, his son refused to study hard and did not even graduate from junior high school. Worried that their son would not find a job, the parents bought him a van. Who knows, he sold the van. Eventually, an acquaintance introduced him to a store as a security guard, but he stole two boxes of good cigarettes and alcohol. The boss found out and asked him to return it, but he sold the cigarettes and alcohol for 20,000 yuan. The boss reported the case, and the Public Security Bureau arrested him. Now, he's still in prison. I don't think my cousin would have gone to jail if she had taught her son with a stick since she was a child. "

After Budong finished speaking, everyone fell into deep thought. Dr. Myth said, "I object to Dr. Budon's notion. When you were young, when you did something wrong for the first time, what kind of solution do you most want your parents to take, it is definitely not to be beaten. When I was a child, washing dishes broke the bowl, and my mother asked which one broke the bowl. I replied, I hit. As a result, I was hit the head by my mother with a few fingers, and I got a blister on my head. I burst into tears. Again, while I was cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks on the table, I broke another bowl. When my mother saw the debris on the ground, she asked, "Who broke the bowl, and did you hit it?" My mother couldn't get the handle and didn't hit me, and I got a small victory. Of course, I also learned to lie since then. Although I have not been beaten much, I can still honor my parents, no matter how busy I am, I have to find time to accompany my parents every year; No matter how little my income is, I have to give a sum of money to my parents every year. "

Doctor Myth also said: "As a parent, if you hit your child, if the child has no understanding, he will resent you; You hit the child, and the child understands that you are for him, and he will respect you and honor you in the future. As a parent, when he found that his child had a mistake, he did not scold him, but only warned him that if he did not understand, the child's mistake was not corrected; Parents admonished the child, the child knew that the mistake would change, although there was no beating, the child still grew up to be filial to his parents. The filial piety of the Chinese is nothing more than respecting their parents, listening to their parents, and sending them to the end of their old age. Some parents are either drug traffickers, or gambling, or embezzlement, and if such parents lead their children down the wrong path, they will not be able to tell their parents filial piety. The school and society teach children a lot of things, what can parents do? That is to pay attention to cooperation, when there is a problem, timely guidance, whether you beat with a stick, whether you don't beat, whether there is filial piety depends on the child's understanding. Maybe after he experienced a major event, he understood a lot at once. Maybe the parents are not good, and there may be filial sons; Maybe the parents are good, and there will also be unfilial children. "

Professor Budong expressed his new feelings: "A young person who feels that he has become an adult and should have a sense of responsibility for his family after getting married is maturing for the first time. After getting married and having a child, and thinking that you are responsible for the child, this is the second maturity. When the young man's parents are gone, the young man thinks he must take on the full burden of life with all his might, and this is the third maturity. "

Then, Dr. Mythology introduced master's students Yang Yang and Ms. Huang Mei. When Dr. Myth introduced the hunter Ah Lang and the deer fairy, it caused a sensation, and a reporter even wanted to interview them. Since this event will use magic clothes and magic vests, they will be interviewed. But afterwards, the reporter still reported the love myth experience tour. Because of the involvement of the magic clothes, the implication of Agbin, and the search for the treasure knife and the treasure hoe, the media has given extensive attention and great social repercussions.

Dr. Mythology said: "Our task is to collect the myths and legends of the South China Sea, and tell our own emotional stories, including the joy of love, the tragedy of love, the pain of falling out of love, emotional reflection, and emotional experience." Now, there are several visitors who have signed up for the My Love Myth Experience Tour, and we are grateful. However, if you want to sign up, you must tell a story about the myth of the South China Sea, and also about a person's love experience. We have to make a decision on the specific participants according to the actual situation. "