Live Broadcast: The post-90s generation is raising a child against their will, which is outrageous

"Damn it, I regret now that I didn’t listen to you and prepare more antihypertensive drugs. How could this Chen Aijun say this to my child?!"

"Tiantian has a typical case of low self-esteem, exactly the same as when I was a child. I can understand her mood very well.……"

"Look at Tongtong and look at Tiantian, it’s simply incomparable!"

"This really can't be blamed on Tiantian, she is also a victim. What she faces every day is the negative energy passed down by her father. How can she be sunny and happy?!"

"But Tongtong is different. It's hard for Tongtong and Brother Lu not to be sunny and happy!"

"I'm convinced. The most ridiculous thing is that Chen Aijun actually has the nerve to envy other people's children who are generous, lively and cheerful. If you don't do it, Tiantian won't be like this if you just say a few words!"

"It's not her fault that Tiantian is like this!"

"Even if you don’t say hello to strangers, there is no need to say this to your children!"

"Inferior self-esteem, loneliness, lack of confidence... The program team really should persuade Chen Aijun to change his current education methods"

"It's hard for the program team to persuade you about this kind of thing."

"It is difficult for an upright official to deal with household matters, let alone educating children. If he talks too much, Chen Aijun might blame the program team for meddling in other people's business!"

"That's right, we can only watch and worry. Even if we really want to help, we can't. After all, in Chen Aijun's heart, everything he does is for the good of his daughter."

"……"

The timidity, timidity and restraint shown by Tiantian were all seen by the audience. The personality difference between her and Tongtong was really huge. The sunshine and confidence shown by Tongtong, It's like a small sun, really, people can feel the temperature through the screen. But Tiantian is the complete opposite. She is more like a flower without sunshine, like an ugly duckling in a fairy tale, like an ostrich that wants to hide itself outside... Especially, after listening to Chen Aijun's words to her After some accusations, the audience was even more angry and distressed. It's Tiantian who feels bad, because it's not her fault at all that she developed such a character! The one who is angry is Chen Aijun. It is obvious that there is something wrong with your education method, but you still turn around and blame your child for not being cheerful and lively! With your kind of suppression and education, can children become lively and cheerful? For a moment, the barrage was full of complaints. Even here in the studio, Teacher He could not help but frown, and for the first time he took the initiative to question the three experts.

"Three experts, you have always said that Lu Yu’s way of raising children is wrong, and that Chen Aijun’s way of raising children is correct.……"

"The two children had been staying at home before, and it was hard to see the difference in their personalities."

"But now that they have gone out and come into contact with the outside world, the performance of the two children is too great!"

"You all saw it too"

"Both of them……"

Before Teacher He could finish speaking, the expert named Wan Ping at the expert table smiled, waved his hand, and interrupted,

"Xiao He, I understand what you want to say"

"You just want to say that the children of Lu Yu's family are more lovable and lively, right?"

"Are the children of Chen Aijun's family a little timid and afraid of strangers?"

"Haha, what's the problem with this?"

Wan Ping explained with a smile,

"Every child has a different personality. Whether he is lively or timid, it is normal."

"This has nothing to do with how their fathers raised their children."

"……"

Doesn't matter much? Teacher He really disagrees with this statement from experts. Let’s take his good friend in the industry, Lao Guo, as an example. He followed Chen Aijun’s education to his eldest son Guo Dalin. As a result, Guo Dalin was almost the same as Tiantian outside... But he was also Lao Guo’s son. , his second son, was pampered to the heavens by Lao Guo. The child had a flamboyant personality and was carefree, but there was no trace of Guo Dalin in him. The same father, two different education methods, directly brought out Children with two personalities, can we still say that it has nothing to do with the way of education?!

……

In the camera, Tiantian was frightened by Chen Aijun's words and quickly expressed"I'm very happy".

She raised her face and squeezed out a smile.

"Dad, Tiantian is very happy!"

"Don't say you won't bring me here, okay?……"

"Let’s see how you perform next!"

Seeing his daughter's forced smile,

Chen Aijun also felt a little soft-hearted, and sighed helplessly and said,

"Originally, it was a very happy thing for dad to take you to the amusement park. We can play happily and go home happily. How great!"

"As a result, you insist on being so ignorant, and now you are both in a bad mood!"

"Dad also admitted that he just said that what you said was a bit harsh."

"However, that’s why I’m so angry with you!"

"If you don't say anything when someone says hello to you in the future, I will really get angry!"

"And in school, you have to play with other children, and you have to answer the teacher's questions loudly and positively, you know!"

"I don’t want to hear you, Teacher Zhang, tell me that you behave like this again!"

"Well, Tiantian got it……"

Tiantian nodded quickly.

Moreover,

I made a firm decision in my heart that

I must become more sensible in the future and make my father less angry!

"Okay, now that you know you are wrong, let’s officially start playing!"

Chen Aijun didn't want to say any more. If he said too much, he would appear to be verbose. Moreover

, he didn't want his daughter to continue to be unhappy after he came. In that case, wouldn't it be a waste of this time in the playground? Okay, it’s better to practice more calligraphy at home! It saves money and allows the child to improve! So, in order to make his daughter happy quickly, Chen Aijun took the initiative to say,

"Tiantian, this playground is divided into two areas."

"Do you see the colorful houses over there??"

"Over there is the amusement facilities area, which is full of fun things, including merry-go-rounds, trampolines, small trains, bumper cars for children, Ferris wheels, roller coasters, etc. for adults."

"If you look over there, there is a very tall shed.……"

"That's the performance viewing area"

"You can see some stage plays, magic, acrobatics, etc. there"

"Where do you want to go to play first?"

Chen Aijun said, and took out a guide map of this amusement park from his pocket.

It clearly marked the location of each attraction and the performance time of the show in the performance viewing area.

Chen Aijun looked at it carefully. Guide map, he kept talking to his daughter, while Tiantian beside her, her previous unhappiness disappeared, and she became happy and expectant again.

After listening to Chen Aijun's words, her mind was filled with excitement. Small wooden horses, trampolines, bumper cars, small trains... She has never played with these things! She has always wanted to play with these in her dreams! So, as soon as Chen Aijun finished speaking, Tiantian couldn't wait to answer,

"Dad, I want to go play on the rotating wooden horse first.I want to ride a rotating wooden horse!"

"I also want to take a small train!"

"Oh, what do you mean, you just want to go to the amusement facilities area first?"

"Okay, this time, I will listen to you!"

"Who made you my baby girl?"

"No matter how much you make your father angry, he still has to pamper you!"

Seeing that her daughter was finally happy again, (to read Baoshuang novels, go to Feilu Novel Network!)

Chen Aijun smiled slightly, put away the guide map in his hand and said,

"Let's go to the amusement facilities area first, and then go to the show after we finish playing!"

"OK Dad!"

Tiantian cheered, and then ran in that direction happily.

However, before running a few steps,

Chen Aijun shouted from behind,

"You run slower!"

"What if you get hit?"

"There are so many people, what should you do if you bump into others?"

"When I ask you to play, you will be so happy that you can't even find the north. I wish you could be so happy when I ask you to write calligraphy!"

Chen Aijun glared at Tiantian angrily, and Tiantian smiled slightly awkwardly.

Then, she hurried back and held her father's big hand tightly.

Seeing this,

Chen Aijun nodded with satisfaction. Nodding, they took their daughter and walked slowly in that direction together.

The playground was very big, and it took about ten minutes before they finally approached the amusement facilities area.

Along the way,

Tiantian was very happy.

Every scenery here made her feel particularly novel.

On the lawn next to her, there was a doll taller than her.

The stones in the grass played beautiful melodies, and even the ground was soft. , like rubber, very comfortable to step on.

Tiantian felt like she was walking in a dream kingdom.

Her eyes were wide open.

She cherished this opportunity to come to the amusement park and couldn't wait to see it. Everything you see is deeply engraved in your mind.

In this way, when you are reluctant to fall asleep at night, you can think about this place more.

In contrast to Tiantian's happiness at this time,

Chen Aijun is getting more and more excited as he walks. Helpless, because the bag he was carrying was too heavy and he had been walking for so long, his arms were already a little sore from fatigue.

Although... for the sake of his daughter, it didn't matter if he was a little tired, but the key point was that his daughter only focused on playing by herself. From beginning to end,

I didn’t even say a word of concern, nor did I ask myself a question,

".Dad, are you tired?……"

His daughter's indifferent and selfish attitude made Chen Aijun feel a little stuffed in his heart. People say that his daughter is his father's caring little cotton-padded jacket. How come his daughter doesn't feel sorry for her father at all? Finally, after walking forward for a few more minutes, Chen Aijun couldn't stand it anymore.

"Tiantian, wait for dad first!"

Chen Aijun said

"What's wrong, Dad, we're almost here!"

Tiantian asked with some confusion.

In her eyes, she still showed the excitement of being able to play the merry-go-round right away.

And her words undoubtedly made Chen Aijun feel even more chilled.

Chen Aijun sighed and said ,

"Tiantian, you still have the nerve to ask dad what’s wrong?……"

"Have you forgotten that Dad is carrying such a heavy thing in his hand?"

"Oh, Dad, let’s carry Tiantian for you. Can we each carry one handle?"(Okay) After hearing Chen Aijun's words,

Tiantian said quickly, and as she said that, she was about to come over and help Chen Aijun carry it.

However,

Chen Aijun waved his hand and said seriously,

"Tiantian, first of all, what you said is wrong"

"What do you mean, carry it for me?"

"This contains the lunch that dad prepared for you. Dad carried such a heavy bag just to make you eat better."

"Even if you carry it, you are carrying it for yourself, not for your father!"

"On the contrary, Dad is really carrying it for you!"

"Oh...Dad, I was wrong...Then I can carry it myself, but, Tiantian can't carry it either.……"

Tiantian felt a little overwhelmed

"Silly boy, daddy didn’t say this because he wanted you to carry it!"

"You're so small, of course you can't carry it!"

Chen Aijun explained helplessly,

"What Dad means is that Tiantian has to carry such a heavy thing for you. Does Tiantian feel sorry for Dad?"

"As parents, you should pay for your children, this is what you should do!"

"But similarly, as a child, do you also need to know how to be grateful and feel sorry for your parents?"

"But what about you, Tiantian?"

"How do you do it?"

"You only care about your own happiness, but you don't think about whether dad is tired or not at all."

"Even if you just say, Dad, thank you for your hard work, Dad will feel happy after hearing this!"

"It doesn't matter if Dad is tired or miserable!"

"For you, dad is not afraid of these hardships and tiredness"

"What makes dad sad is that Tiantian, you don’t know how to be grateful and how to feel sorry for dad.……"

"Do you understand Tiantian?"

"As a human being, you can't be so selfish"

"……"