Live Broadcast: The post-90s generation is raising a child against their will, which is outrageous

Chen Tiantian's face was full of grievances, and even now, the bump on her head still hurts!

Thinking of this,

Chen Tiantian couldn't help but look at her father. She wanted her father to seek justice for her. It would be best if she could go to the class and give the little boy who pushed her a beating so that he would never do it again. Don’t dare to push yourself anymore!

For a child, her father is her supporter and a great hero who can help her defeat all the bad guys!

However, what disappointed Chen Tiantian was that after hearing Zhang Lan's words, Chen Aijun immediately showed a smiling expression on his face!

"Oh, Teacher Zhang, this is what you are talking about. I heard Xiaotian say it.……"

Chen Aijun smiled and said,

"It's okay, it's normal for children to fight each other!"

"It really bothered Teacher Zhang and even talked to other parents."

"By the way, I also criticized our Xiaotian because of this incident. She must have accidentally offended others before they pushed her."

"Otherwise, there are so many children, why would others only push her instead of others? She must have done something wrong somewhere!"

Zhang Aijun's words made Chen Tiantian's face almost overflow with grievance!

She didn't expect that her father had wronged her so much!

"Dad, what I didn’t have, I just stood there, obviously I didn’t offend him.……"

"Xiaotian!"

Before Chen Tiantian could finish speaking,

Chen Aijun interrupted seriously,

"Students should care about each other and tolerate each other!"

"How can we destroy the friendship between your classmates just because of this little thing?"

"Didn't your father always teach you that you should learn to be generous and forgive others? You should look for the reasons from yourself for everything and don't always focus on the faults of others."

"Only in this way will your classmates and teachers like you!"

"Do you think that’s right?"

Chen Aijun stroked her daughter's hair lovingly, and Chen Tiantian lowered her head for a moment, like a child who had done something wrong.

She tugged at the corner of her clothes hesitantly.

After a few seconds, she pursed her lips and felt aggrieved. whispered,"Dad, I know"

"Well, this is daddy’s girl! Seeing that his daughter understood his good intentions, Chen Aijun smiled happily and said,"Go, follow you, Teacher Zhang, to school together.""

"Remember what dad said, study hard!"

"Well, I got it, Dad!"

"……"

Watching Chen Tiantian enter the kindergarten, the shooting task here has come to an end.

At the same time, the live broadcast room became lively again.

Over in the studio hall,

Teacher He glanced at Su Xue with a smile, only to find that Su Xue didn't seem very happy. She was staring at Chen Tiantian's lonely back on the screen with her eyebrows slightly furrowed.

Upon seeing this, Teacher He realized that Su Xue had another opinion on the way fathers born in the 1980s raised their children, so he had no choice but to turn his attention to the three experts.

The attitudes of the three experts were exactly the opposite of Su Xue.

At this time, their faces were filled with smiles

"Dads born in the 1980s are really good at educating their children!"

Expert Wan Ping took the lead and said with a smile,

"Just now, he did a very good job in handling conflicts between children!"

"It is normal for children to have conflicts among themselves"

"If you let it go, it'll be fine"

"As parents, you must not add fuel to the fire and make things worse!"

"That's right! Expert Hu

Zhen on the side took the opportunity to say,

"Nowadays, some parents are very angry at all times. When their children feel a little wronged or bullied by their classmates in school, the parents want to turn the school over!"

"They were looking for teachers, calling for surveillance, and even more outrageous, even taking short videos and uploading them online!"

"In fact, it doesn’t have to be like this!"

"How can parents educate their children in this way? Children raised in this way will become lawless when they grow up!"

"Moreover, such an approach will also make the children who bully your children feel embarrassed, and may even suffer from online violence, and they will also be seriously harmed mentally!"

"Our Daxia has been a land of etiquette since ancient times, and we must treat others with courtesy!"

"Confucius said it very well, we must repay evil with kindness and convince others with reason!"

"We must also do it: I will examine myself three times a day!"

"When someone hits you, the first thing you think about is not to be angry, but to reflect on whether you did something bad."

"Only in this way can you become an open-minded and considerate person!"

"Someone beats you once and you forgive him"

"Hit you twice and you forgive him again!"

"The third time, he will definitely be embarrassed to hit you again. This is called convincing others with virtue!"

"……"

Speaking of the conflicts between some students on campus, the three experts also took the opportunity to say a lot.

After all, there are too many such things now.

They believe that these things are actually just small fights between students. How much pain can a child get if he is hit a few times

?

There is no need to go up and down the line, and there is no need for parents to add fuel to the fire behind their backs.

The children will be able to solve the problem well.

Even if you can't solve it, you can still report it to the teacher.

The teacher will definitely make the decision for you.

Why do you need to ask your parents to go to school to do whatever they want?

What's more, as the old saying goes, a slap can't make a sound, and a fly can't bite a seamless egg.

After a conflict occurs, you should reflect more.

Why do others bully your children instead of bullying others? Don’t always look for problems in others, learn to reflect on whether your own children are doing something wrong!

Daxia is a country of etiquette, gentleness, courtesy, frugality and humility, which are traditional virtues.

It is very important to teach children to be humble, considerate and tolerant of others from an early age!

Because of this, these three experts all believe that what Chen Aijun, a father born in the 1980s, did just now is particularly correct.

After learning that his daughter was pushed down at school, his mood was very stable and he did not blindly seek revenge. If you want to speak out, you should be very rational and objective. First, criticize your child, so that the child can reflect on it from an early age and develop good habits of humility and tolerance.

When such children grow up, they will be particularly considerate of others.