Live Broadcast: The post-90s generation is raising a child against their will, which is outrageous

When talking about these,

Tiantian's smile became even more intense! .

Even,

Tiantian was a little excited!

I am the monitor now,

I am the monitor now!

I can help the teacher to manage other children~!

I can also stand in line and be the first one out after school!

This feeling of honor and being valued by the teacher-,

It was her first time,

to truly experience it!

Usually in kindergarten,

She was silent, lonely and quiet.

No one, whether the teacher or the children in the class, had ever paid attention to her.

Tiantian is like a marginalized little transparent person in a corner.

It seems that she is there or not.

The classroom is the same.

Even if she doesn’t go to school one day,

No one will probably notice her absence...

Not to mention,

Every day after school,

Almost every time Tiantian queues up to leave school, she will be squeezed to the back of the line by those children who are scrambling to get ahead.

Children all hope to be in the front of the line,

so that they can get out

faster than other children and be picked up by their parents from kindergarten.

Tiantian also wanted to be the first in line,

to be the first child to be picked up...

But unfortunately,

her personality was too weak,

many times,

she was the first to stand in line,

but she would still be cut in line by those children and pushed to the back,

in this regard,

Tiantian didn't dare to say a word,

didn't dare to argue with others,

She dared not compete with others...

She looked up at the teacher for help and flattery,

hoping that the teacher could do justice for her,

and drive those kids who cut in line,

to the back,

but,

the teacher didn't care about these things,

as long as the kids could line up neatly,

who stood in front and who stood in the back,

the teacher didn't care at all.

So,

facing Tiantian's eyes,

teachers usually turned a blind eye, or simply didn't understand what Tiantian's eyes meant.

Because of this,

even if Tiantian was pushed to the back,

she had no choice,

she could only stand in the position where others pushed her.

That feeling of loss,

Tiantian experiences it almost every time after school!

She once,

told her father Chen Aijun about this matter,

wanted to talk to her father about her bitterness,

but she could do nothing,

What he got in return was Chen Aijun's ridicule and mockery.

In Chen Aijun's words,

"Haha, Tiantian, you are too competitive, aren't you?"

"Isn't it just a queue?"

"It doesn't matter where you stand!"

"One is picked up earlier or later, and the difference is only a few minutes!"

"Don't argue with other kids about such a small matter!"

"Do you still want me to talk to your class teacher, Mr. Zhang, about this matter?"

"Don't be silly, I won't talk about such things!"

"If I say it, Your teacher Zhang will definitely think that you have too many things to do, and he might even hate you in the future!"

"So, Tiantian, don't be so fussy about this little thing!"

"If they want to stand in front, then let them stand!"

"If you don't even have this kind of mind, how can you accomplish great things in the future!"

"..."

Chen Aijun's words at that time,

were deeply engraved in Tiantian's mind,

Since then,

Tiantian never told her father about queuing again.

But,

Although she didn’t say it,

Tiantian still had a deep desire and obsession to be the first in line...

She wanted to be the first in line,

to be the first to walk out of the classroom,

to be the first to see her father,

to be the first to see her father,

to be the first to walk out of the kindergarten,

to be picked up first,

to be the first to get home...

These ideas,

may be ridiculous,

in the eyes of adults,

will also appear very naive,

but, it is a great yearning in the heart of a child.

And it is such a yearning,

What Tiantian didn’t expect was that,

today,

she actually realized it! !

Originally,

Tiantian had no interest in the English tutorial class

after school today, and was very resistant to it...

She didn't want to learn English!

On the one hand, it was because of

pure resistance,

she didn't want to come into contact with this new knowledge that she had never come into contact with before. Tiantian had a subconscious resistance to unknown things.

On the other hand, it was because,

Dad had paid so much money,

Tiantian was worried that she would not be able to learn well,

which would disappoint Dad,

and fail Dad’s expectations,

so she didn’t want to come…

Especially,

After school today,

Dad was late to pick her up,

and then he rode a tricycle loaded with garbage to pick her up…

In addition,

After coming here,

I also met the sameZhao Zirui, a kid in her class,

Zhao Zirui was riding in an expensive car that his father had said was only for very rich people.

Comparing it to the garbage truck she was riding in,

Tiantian wanted to escape from this embarrassment and shame.

Later,

After entering the mall,

Dad criticized and educated her harshly...

All these unhappiness piled up together,

Let alone a six-year-old child,

Even if it was an adult,

After experiencing these things,

I'm afraid you won't be motivated anymore, right?

Tiantian was the same,

She didn’t want to learn English anymore…

However,

she didn’t dare to say it,

she could only bite the bullet and walk into the classroom,

and listen to the teacher’s lecture…

What Tiantian never expected was that,

just because she sat upright and didn’t act naughty,

this English teacher,

actually chose her to be the monitor,

and praised her in front of many other children!

Tiantian, who had never enjoyed such treatment, was like a traveler walking in the desert and dying of thirst. Suddenly, she was like a sweet drink falling from the sky. The surprise and excitement instantly rekindled Tiantian, a traveler who was about to die of thirst. She changed her previous dejection and frustration and became a student who listened more attentively than anyone else in class. Her resistance to learning English here also disappeared. She suddenly felt that learning English here was an extremely happy thing!

Not to mention,

When the get out of class was over,

Tiantian was pulled by the English teacher,

to stand at the front of the team,

and told her,

You are the class monitor, and you will stand at the front after school and take the children out...

This sentence,

gave great encouragement to Tiantian,

and also satisfied her previous yearning and desire to stand at the front of the team...

Because of this,

at this moment,

when she walked out,

Tiantian looked so happy and excited,

before she had a few words with Chen Aijun,

she couldn't wait,

as if sharing a little secret, to share this joy with her father!

At the same time,

After listening to Tiantian’s sharing,

In the live broadcast room,

the audience was also stunned, and then burst into laughter!

“Hahaha, Tiantian’s little secret, it turns out that she is the monitor, congratulations! ”

“Although Chen Aijun made me very angry just now, Tiantian finally made me laugh again. It’s rare to see Tiantian so happy...”

“Yes, it’s really not easy for Tiantian to be happy once. Unlike Tongtong, she is always happy and her laughter is particularly magical!”

“Tiantian is great. She became the monitor in her first English cram school!”

“In fact, becoming the monitor is secondary...”

“The main thing is that through this time when the teacher asked her to be the monitor, I hope Tiantian can build up her self-confidence and become less inferior and unconfident in the future, that would be great!”

“That’s right, Tiantian’s English teacher is a lucky coincidence!”

“Choosing Tiantian as the monitor can also help Tiantian overcome some of her cowardice! ”

“It seems that even God couldn’t stand Tiantian’s situation anymore, and sent a teacher to pull Tiantian out of the abyss!”

“Now that you mention it, it’s true. Look how happy Tiantian is. It seems that after becoming the monitor, her personality has become much more lively!”

“Children are actually like this. They need encouragement and trust from parents and teachers. The more you encourage her and trust her, the better she will be!”

“With the repressive education of Chen Aijun before, who constantly denied Tiantian and didn’t even let her wash her face by herself, it would be strange if Tiantian could have confidence!”

“Yeah, yeah, if Tiantian can change her personality in the English cram school, and become confident, lively and cheerful from now on, it will definitely be a great thing!”

“Even if she didn’t learn anything in English, it would be worth it for Tiantian to come here! ”

“…”

Looking at the happy and smiling Tiantian on the screen,

the audience in the live broadcast room,

are also sincerely happy for Tiantian.

Although everyone hates Chen Aijun,

no one has implicated Tiantian in this hatred.

Just like the movie called “Killing” played by Huang Bo before,

the villagers all hate Niu Jieshi in it,

I wish I could kill Niu Jieshi,

But the villagers chose to let Niu Jieshi's child go,

Just because of that sentence:

The child is innocent!

By the same token,

Tiantian was innocent from beginning to end,

Her inferiority and shyness,

were not her own will,

but were imposed on her by Chen Aijun,

So,

For Tiantian,

· ··Please give her flowers· ·

Actually, the audience felt more sympathy, pity, and heartache,

and did not hate her.

Not to mention,

Tiantian was still a kind-hearted child at heart,

Last time, she forgave Xiao Ran without hesitation.

And that time,

she took the initiative to help the old cleaning man pick up the garbage.

These actions,

the audience saw them all.

So,

seeing Tiantian happy and becoming the class monitor,

the audience will only feel happy for Tiantian.

I hope she can take advantage of this opportunity and

become more confident and lively in the future.

As the saying goes,

you have always been great, but you just don’t know it.

The audience also hopes that

Tiantian can realize her own excellence in the future and not always be so humble and unconfident...

Amid the discussion of the audience,

after Tiantian shared her little secret and laughed happily,

after Chen Aijun listened to his daughter’s words,

he also smiled slightly.

"Okay, Tiantian, you became the class monitor on the first day of class!"

Chen Aijun smiled and looked around,

Then he joked,

"Tell your dad the truth."

"Could it be that you kept crying in the classroom, so the teacher felt sorry for you and made you the class monitor?"

Chen Aijun's joke was obviously self-righteous and humorous,

Of course he knew,

The teacher would not let the child be the class monitor just because the child kept crying,

The reason why he said that,

That's because,

Chen Aijun noticed that Zhao Zirui's father also walked over holding Zhao Zirui's hand,

He said that on purpose,

On the one hand, he wanted to show off that his daughter became the class monitor,

. . 0

On the other hand,

I am worried that my boasting will be too obvious,

which will cause others to be jealous and dissatisfied,

so I deliberately belittle my daughter, saying that she became the class monitor because she kept crying.

In this way,

others will not feel bad or hate me because of my boasting after hearing what I said.

How should I put it,

this mentality,

actually, is very common in many parents.

For example...

When my own child gets good grades in the exam,

but the neighbor's child does not do well,

some parents will subconsciously,

belittle their own children in person, show their humility, and try to please the neighbors and make them feel at ease.

Among them,

There is also a part of the reason, which is to take the opportunity to warn their children not to be proud, and to openly criticize and secretly praise in front of neighbors.

But no matter what,

These words of these parents,

Adults mayThose who understand will understand, and know what you mean,

But children,

may not understand your little tricks,

They will really treat your belittling and slandering,

as the truth.

Just like Tiantian at this moment,

She didn’t know at all that

Dad was joking with her,

and didn’t know that Dad wanted to show off to others that he was the monitor…

After hearing Chen Aijun say that

she became the monitor because she kept crying in the classroom,

Tiantian’s original smile

froze instantly,

She widened her eyes,

looking at Chen Aijun in disbelief, shock and grievance,

never expected that

in her father’s heart,

she was such a useless child…

she could only become the monitor by crying…

“Dad, it’s not true…”

“I, I didn’t cry…”

“I sat upright and always sat well, so the teacher let me be the monitor…”

After a short silence,

Tiantian quickly defended herself,

However,

before she finished speaking,

Chen Aijun laughed,

interrupted her,

"Come on, Tiantian, isn't it just a class monitor?"

"Look at you, you're still showing off!"

"Dad is telling you, the teacher asked you to be the class monitor, it was a coincidence that you were chosen!"

" Your teacher may not have noticed that there are many children who sit more upright than you! "

"For example, Zhao Zirui, I think Zhao Zirui will definitely perform better than you!"

"Look at Zirui, how sensible he is!"

"Right, Zirui?"

"..."

Chen Aijun said,

Nodding to Zhao Zirui's father with a big smile on his face,

Then he stretched out his hand to tease Zhao Zirui a few times.

He showed an attitude of not caring about his daughter being the class monitor,

It seemed that in his eyes,

other children performed better than his daughter.

When the adults heard this kind of modest words and deeds,

of course they knew it was just a polite remark,

but when it fell into the ears of Tiantian next to him,

it was like thunder!

Watching her father praising Zhao Zirui,

Tiantian was stunned again.

…………………………

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