Live Broadcast: The post-90s generation is raising a child against their will, which is outrageous

Faced with Zhao Zirui's father's question,

Chen Aijun nodded as a matter of course,

"I did!"

"How can I not tell her these words?"

Chen Aijun explained,

"Children nowadays are very selfish."

"If you don't tell her these, she won't know how hard we parents work."

"If she can't understand the hard work of her parents and has no motivation, she won't study hard!"

"So, I will never hide my family's conditions from my children!"

"It's not shameful to be poor!".

"I also We are here to educate Tiantian. Don't compare your conditions, food and clothing with others. If you want to compare, compare your studies!"

"As long as you have backbone, work hard and strive for success, I believe Tiantian will not be worse than other children in the future!"

"..."

These words,

Chen Aijun not only said them to Tiantian,

He would say them to Tiantian every day,

To remind Tiantian all the time,

Let her remember our identity as poor people, to be grateful for the difficulty and greatness of our parents,

And use this as motivation,

to study harder,

Strive to achieve excellent results in the future to repay her parents.

Chen Aijun did not think,

there was anything wrong with his education method,

instead, he felt,

the children he raised in this way,

would definitely have a promising future,

if other parents knew his education method,

maybe,

they would rush to learn from him!

Thinking of this,

Chen Aijun glanced at the camera of his second brother again,

and suddenly remembered something,

that is,

about the program "Daily Parenting of Two Generations" that he was participating in recording,

he had been taking Tiantian,

participating in the filming for so many days,

and he did not know,

what attitude did those parents on the Internet,

have towards his education method?

After watching me take care of my baby,

what kind of evaluation will everyone give?

This matter,

Chen Aijun had never thought about it before,

Now that he thought about it,

Chen Aijun thought about it carefully,

I guess...

It must be the people who praise me,

They should account for the majority!

Maybe,

many people have already regarded me as a model father, as a role model,

and are learning and praising me everywhere!

Thinking of this,

Chen Aijun couldn't help but smile proudly,

Then,

he remembered again,

the 90s who appeared on the show with him and compared with the one who took care of the baby...

Uh,

A 90s dad raising a baby?

Don’t be ridiculous,

How can a 90s dad raise a child? They haven’t even grown up yet!

Let alone raising a good child,

it’s good enough that they can take care of themselves!

So,

In that case,

that 90s dad,

should have a bad reputation now, right?

Even if he hasn’t been criticized by those people online, he’s not far off…

Especially,

the other party is so unlucky,

and he has become a contestant on the same stage with this 80s dad,

Under his own contrast,

it will only make him seem

that 90s dad is even more incompetent and doesn’t understand education!

Thinking of this,

Chen Aijun even,

felt a little sympathetic to the other party,

thinking,

after picking up Tiantian later,

he would take some time to surf the Internet,

see what the comments about him and the 90s dad were,

exactly,

if the 90s dad was really badly criticized,

he must not laugh in front of the camera,

lest he be accused of gloating.

After all,

he is now a celebrity,

and he still needs to pay attention to his image.

While Chen Aijun was daydreaming about these things,

he did not know that

Zhao Zirui's father, who was standing opposite him,

had already been full of emotion.

"Sure enough!"

"No wonder Tiantian behaves so inferior, cowardly, unconfident, and even humble in front of Zirui..."

"The child's introverted personality is one reason."

"On the other hand, it may also have a lot to do with Tiantian's father's education method!"

Zhao Zirui's father glanced at Chen Aijun and thought,

"My friends around me are all trying to find ways to build self-confidence for their children and give them the courage and confidence to face the future...' "..."

"But Tiantian's father is so good..."

"He did the opposite!"

"If he really told the child those words every now and then..."

"It would be strange if the child could be confident and cheerful!"

"The poverty of the family and the high expectations of the parents have made the child have no confidence at all. How can she be strong outside?"

"..."

Of course,

These words,

Zhao Zirui's father only thought about it in his heart,

but it was not easy to say it to others,

After all,

he was an outsider,

and had no right to interfere in other people's education problems,

especiallyIt's about crying poor,

He couldn't tell Chen Aijun, "Don't cry poor to your child anymore, because it will make the child feel inferior outside..."

This,

Obviously, can't be said,

From the previous time in the playground,

Meeting this father and daughter,

And just now,

Seeing Chen Aijun riding a broken tricycle,

Bringing her daughter to tutoring,

With And,

Chen Aijun also took out an old mobile phone that he used to use and showed it to him.

Zhao Zirui's father actually saw it.

Chen Aijun and Tiantian's family,

should be really poor.

So,

Chen Aijun complained about being poor to the child,

Although this behavior was very wrong,

Zhao Zirui's father, as an outsider, could not say anything bad about him.

You can't let him,

have no money and pretend to be rich in front of the child, right?

That would be too much of a scolding,

and it might even hurt his self-esteem.

If you want to blame,

you can only blame,

the other party's family is really poor,

if they were a little richer,

you don't need to say it yourself,

I'm sure he can't complain about being poor to the child like this.

Thinking of this,

Zhao Zirui's father sighed,

and somewhat understood Chen Aijun's difficulties.

Just as he was about to say a few words of comfort,

unexpectedly,

at this moment,

Chen Aijun's cell phone suddenly rang.

Seeing this, Zhao Zirui's father

shut his mouth again,

and saw Chen Aijun answer the call and chat with the caller there.

"Hello, how are you?"

Chen Aijun asked,

"You are..."

"Hello, is this Mr. Chen?"

"I am Liu Tong, the manager of the Agricultural Bank of China. You can just call me Xiao Liu!"

"I am calling you today because I have something to consult you about."

"..."

Because it is in the mall,

the environment is relatively noisy,

so in order to hear the other party's words clearly,

Chen Aijun turned on the speaker.

In this way,

you can hear more clearly.

Even Zhao Zirui's father, who was standing opposite, could hear it clearly.

A call from the bank manager?

Hearing the identity of the person on the other end of the phone,

Zhao Zirui's father was stunned,

thinking,

Why is the bank manager calling Chen Aijun?

As Zhao Zirui's father listened curiously,

Chen Aijun also asked this question.

"Oh, it's Manager Liu. What do you want to consult me ​​about?"

"It's like this, Mr. Chen..."

Faced with Chen Aijun's doubts,

The bank manager did not tell himInstead of beating around the bush,

he explained directly,

"Mr. Chen, our bank is now promoting a very good financial product!"

"I saw that you deposited and withdrew a large amount of money in our bank, and you haven't used this money for a long time."

"The deposit amount is more than 1.5 million."

"So, I called you to ask you, do you plan to keep this money like this?"

"If you plan to do so, and you don't need it in the near future, You need to use a lot of money..."

"Then, this financial product promoted by our bank is really suitable for you!"

"If you use this money to manage our product, the income will be much higher than your current interest, and..."

"Beep-beep-beep-"

Hearing this,

Chen Aijun suddenly realized,

It turned out that the other party was calling,

to encourage him to take out the money,

to buy financial products!

In this regard,

After Chen Aijun understood,

he hung up the phone without hesitation,

he would not take the money to buy financial products!

I have heard of it before,

These financial management,

many are scams,

some time ago,

didn’t a news report break out,

said that a couple deposited more than 30 million yuan in the bank,

but when they needed money for their business,

they went to the bank to check,

and found that,

of the more than 30 million yuan, only a few hundred yuan was left.

It turned out that,

it was because they gave the money to a bank employee to help them manage their finances and other operations,

that led to,

the more than 30 million yuan in deposits,

which was directly thrown into the bank!

So,

With these lessons learned,

Chen Aijun is not so stupid.

He has worked hard for decades,

and only saved a little money.

He is not at ease to buy financial products.

He just keeps the money in the bank,

and earns interest every day.

He is already very satisfied.

"Hehe, banks are really funny!"

"I only have a tiny deposit, and they're targeting it!"

"They're trying to persuade me to buy financial products..."

Chen Aijun said to Zhao Zirui's father beside him, laughing and crying,

"Financial management, funds, and investment are all things you rich people play with."

"For us poor people, it's good enough to be able to keep the few dollars in our hands."

"How can you understand those things!"

"If you get cheated and the money is invested, if you don't get it back, you won't have anywhere to cry!"

"..."

Chen Aijun laughed and complained to Zhao Zirui's fatherHe made a few comments.

But what he didn't notice was that

Zhao Zirui's father's expression,

had already turned into a look of astonishment,

and his head was buzzing!

Uh...

Fuck!

Just now, what did the bank manager say on the phone?

He said,

Chen Aijun's deposit exceeded 1.5 million? ! !

1.5 million! ! !

After hearing the amount of deposit, Zhao Zirui's father

was stunned!

His family, together with the whole family, didn't have that much deposit!

All in all,

his family,

only had about 200,000 in deposits,

and this was just saved up in the past two years when the business was better!

But,

This poor man in my eyes,

This Chen Aijun who keeps crying poor and begging for mercy,

actually has 1.5 million in deposits!

That’s seven times more than my deposits!!

To be honest,

Young people nowadays,

don’t let those online comments get the better of you.

Thinking that hundreds of thousands of deposits,

or even millions of deposits,

are small sums that cannot be taken out in the eyes of many people.

But in fact,

In real life,

there are not so many rich people!

Ask yourself,

For those born in the 80s and 90s,

do you have more than 100,000 in your bank cards? !

Those who can exceed 100,000,

are probably very few!

For most people,

not owing money,

is already good!

If you don't believe it,

you can ask online,

let young people with deposits of more than 100,000 deduct 1,

see how many people there are!

But what about Chen Aijun?

As a father born in the 1980s, he actually has more than 1.5 million in deposits. Even the bank manager called him personally to persuade him to manage his finances...

To be honest,

just in terms of deposits,

conservatively estimated,

Chen Aijun has already beaten more than 95% of the people in the country!

Not to mention that he is much better than others,

at the very least,

he is more than seven times better than himself!

Zhao Zirui's father looked dazed, staring at Chen Aijun in disbelief,

He couldn't figure it out,

You are so rich! !

Since...

Since you are so rich,

Then why did you cry about poverty and misery to me before! !

You also cried about poverty and misery to your daughter! !

If you really have no money and are really poor, then youI can understand raising children in poverty...

You wear pants that fit your buttocks,

This shows that you are not vain.

But the key is,

You are so rich,

A real millionaire,

You (Li Dezhao) actually complain about being poor to everyone you meet,

And you raise your children to be inferior, timid, humble and unconfident...

Then you,

Aren't you definitely mentally ill!

And,

You are seriously ill!!

"．¨ ..."

Thinking of this,

Zhao Zirui's father took a deep breath and thought of another possibility.

Suppressing the shock and disbelief in his heart,

Zhao Zirui’s father asked,

"Tiantian’s father, you have so much savings, are you planning to buy a house?"

Yes,

The possibility that Zhao Zirui’s father thought of,

is this money,

which is probably the money that Chen Aijun is going to use to buy a house.

If that’s the case,

One million and five hundred thousand to buy a house,

is really not enough.

As for the current housing prices here,

the worst place,

one square meter is also over ten thousand,

like the nearby "Garden New Town" community,

this kind of newly built community,

now the housing prices are even more terrifying,

because it is built in the new city area, and the supporting facilities are very complete,

so,

one square meter starts at thirty or forty thousand.

Two years ago,

when Zhao Zirui was about to go to kindergarten,

Zhao Zirui's father went to see the Garden New City Community.

The Garden New City Community is very close to Zhao Zirui's kindergarten,

only separated by a road.

If he bought a house in the Garden New City,

it would be very convenient for Zhao Zirui to go to kindergarten in the future.

But unfortunately,

the house price in the Garden New City Community is too high,

Zhao Zirui's family simply can't afford it,

Finally, they could only settle for the next best thing,

buying a house in the Anju Community Yu,

which is a little farther from their daughter's kindergarten.

At this time,

Zhao Zirui's father thought that

Chen Aijun had so much savings,

it was probably that two or three generations of his family, relatives and friends had put it together,

to buy a house.

If that was the case,

then he could understand,

Chen Aijun's previous behavior of crying poor and selling misery.

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