A tumultuous life

Xiaofang said: "You're investing your money like this?"

An Siming said: "Grandpa and grandma wanted me to accumulate experience, but I didn't expect that I would succeed in one try. They are very worried that after I succeed, I will be arrogant and forget my last name."

Xuan Caier said: "Don't they want you to succeed?"

An Siming said: "They hope I will succeed, not that they hope I will succeed in one try."

Gao Juan didn't understand and said: "Why?"

An Siming said: "Success in one try means that things will become very troublesome in the future."

This is experience, and many things are like this.

If you succeed, you will think that success comes easily, and you will copy and imitate others. You will think that you can succeed in any way, but you don't know that some successes cannot be replicated. It's like a person who won the lottery and studied it, and won the second time, and then he never won again and owed a huge debt.

Why is it like this? Because he studied the winning numbers of the lottery and thought that if he won once, he would win the second time. If you win the second time, you will win the third time, and the result is that you will fall flat on your face. Many things are like this. If you succeed easily, many people will be complacent and feel that success is easy.

They don’t know that some successes cannot be replicated.

After all, success comes too easily, which will make many people complacent and make many people fall and can’t get up. Too many people are like this. Think about it, remember that many years ago, many people relied on "buying" certain officials to succeed in business. As a result, they did whatever they wanted and then fell. They wanted to replicate their success, but found that it was impossible. Some officials have been replaced.

It is even more impossible to get up now, after all, the times are different.

If An Siming succeeded at the first time, then he thought success was easy and there would be trouble. If he didn’t succeed at the first time, or if he stumbled on the road to success, An Siming would know that success is not easy to come by, and he would cherish it very much. This is reality.

Although no one wants to experience setbacks, we still know that setbacks can make many people know what it means to cherish, and also let many people know what is not easy.

Xuan Caier said: "Master, it seems that you are still successful, and you have always been successful."

An Siming said: "You just don't know failure. Don't say that I haven't experienced failure. I have experienced failure, but I just didn't show it. Many times, I will think of failure." Looking at Xuan Caier, "To a large extent, my success comes from the support of my grandparents and parents, not myself."

Xuan Caier said: "I don't understand."

Gao Juan said: "Isn't your success your own hard work?"

An Siming said: "You don't understand. Think about it, if my family is poor,Do you think I will succeed?"

Xuan Caier and Gao Juan were silent.

Duan Xiaohui said in confusion: "I will succeed, right?"

Xuan Caier said: "It's very difficult. ”

Maybe Duan Xiaohui, Wang Luoshuang, Bao Li, Gui Yuanyuan, Xiaofang and others have no experience. Xuan Caier and Gao Juan have different experiences, so we know that many things are different.

Just like An Siming's success, it is not just based on An Siming's ability, but more on An Siming's family background.

Think about it, what will happen if An Siming fails? He will not care, after all, he has his family background to support him, and it can be said that his family background does not care about his failure and can let him make a comeback.

From here, we can see that An Siming can do it freely without any taboos, or in other words, there are any taboos, but he can do whatever he wants.

On the contrary, people with poor family backgrounds will have some difficulties.

Just like Bao Li, it is almost impossible to start a business. Even if you want to start a business, you need to accumulate a lot of things, such as connections, money, etc. Moreover, when doing things, you will be timid and cautious. Why? Because she is afraid of failure. If she fails, she will not have the opportunity to start over. In addition, she may owe a huge debt.

Becoming An Siming's lover is different.

An Siming is Bao Li's backer.

Whatever support Bao Li wants, An Siming can give it, including connections and money. At this time, she will not be timid when doing things, but can only move forward blindly.

Failure is no big deal, after all, you can start over.

Gao Juan said: "Without backing, there is no possibility of success. ”

This is why many children of rich people will continue to be rich, while children of poor people will continue to be poor. It is not that children of poor people are not good, but that under the same circumstances, children of poor people are easy to succeed. If they are not under the same circumstances, they will be restricted by many environmental factors.

There is no way to do this.

An Siming is successful, but it is also a fluke success, which is reasonable.

An Siming said: "Many times, we say that family background is the decisive factor, not to say, it is nonsense, but a fact. Although we don’t admit it, we still think that family background should be an important factor."

I returned to the villa with Xiaofang and Baoli, stayed there for a while, and then went to see Qiu Wanqing.

Of course, this time, I didn’t let Xiaofang and Baoli follow, but went there by myself.

An Siming went there and saw Qiu Wanqing busy, so he didn’t disturb her.

After a while, Qiu Wanqing found An Siming and said, "Master?"

An Siming said, "Just come to see. ”

Qiu Wanqing asked He Piaopiao to bring An Siming into the inner room.

An Siming has nothingPolite, just go over and flirt with He Piaopiao for a while.

Xue Shanshan came over and said to An Siming: "Master."

An Siming said: "It seems that I haven't loved you for a while."

After relaxing for a while, Qiu Wanqing also joined in.

After a long time, Xue Shanshan's face flushed, and she said to An Siming: "Master, my family forced me to get married."

An Siming said: "What do you think?"

Xue Shanshan said: "I don't want to follow others."

An Siming said: "Okay. Follow the master." Looking at Qiu Wanqing, "What about you?"

Qiu Wanqing said: "It will take a while, master, I haven't thought about it yet." To An Siming, "I want to give birth to a child for the master."

She knew that it was not An Siming who wanted her to become An Siming's woman, but asked for her opinion.

She still didn't want to become An Siming's woman, and she also knew that An Siming's woman would never be allowed to appear in the company. This was something she didn't want to do, and she also had no intention of giving up her current rights.