Comprehensive comic: Simultaneous travel and start a one-person chat group

Being a tree hole.

The slowness of updates is more or less related to the fact that I have recently started to find a blind date by myself. When I go to work and go home to code, everything is normal. After being forced to join the process of finding a partner, there is a limit to what a person can do. The blind date experience that started from that time made me doubt my life and whether there was something wrong with me, and I might as well show it to everyone for fun.

Let me briefly talk about my situation first. I am a 95-year-old male, 188cm tall, a college degree, a third-tier city, and a garage.

My parents are planning to retire, so they have no burdens. If they even get married, they can help, so they will have no worries about food and clothing.

I am quite contented, have a fitness habit, and have more male friends than members of the opposite sex, so I have no desire to take the initiative towards the opposite sex. However, I look like I am about the same age, so I have been looking for some blind date introductions since this year.

Some are dating centers, and some are enthusiastic introducers...

I actually think I'm pretty good, a popular person.

My relatives and friends also think that if I really want to find him, it will be easy for me to take action.

However, the result... was not successful.

It's more or less like a bad peach blossom. Now that I've been on nearly ten blind dates, I almost doubt my life. I used to think that some of these cases were just compiled on XHS, but I didn’t expect that I would encounter them in reality, and they would almost become friends after tea.

Now I have doubts in my life...

Girl No. 01

The woman is 29 years old. The introducer said that she is very nervous as she approaches her thirties.

Unestablished teachers, which are probably teachers from training institutions, have a salary of a little higher than 4K.

The other party's family is a single-parent family in a rural area. There is only one mother, one elder sister, one younger sister, and one younger brother...

Originally, I didn't have any feelings for this teacher. Because it’s a single-parent family, it’s hard to tell.

But my family knew this, which meant that he was from a rural area and had many brothers and sisters, so he must be very sensible... Then after he came out, I felt like I was being treated as a fool when I asked him out.

Female:"You added me because the introducer gave me the most beautiful one.……"

"……"(Actually, that's it, so I didn't expect the other party to ask this kind of question, so I was a little confused.)

Anyway, I don't know if it was because I was polite, which made people think I was just looking for sex. As a result, some of the following conversations occurred, ignoring some politeness and conciseness. As follows

: Woman:"We don't have any feelings, so we just laid out the conditions directly.""

……

Woman:"Do you think I’m gentle?"

"It takes a long time to know."

Female:"I'm not the gentle type."

……

Woman:"Where is the house?"

"Almost in xx."

Female:"The houses of that generation are very old.……"

"oh? If you have any ideas, you can buy new ones. Look, the house over there is quite new."

Female:"But it's far away from where I work."

……

Woman:"How much is the salary?"

I was probably more than three times her salary, but after hearing this, the woman was silent for a while and said,"I can earn 10k overtime myself." That's pretty much what she meant. She probably disliked the low income. She passed by a shop behind her. , I think I’m thirsty and I won’t leave even if I want some coffee. I’ll keep my face down anyway.

When we get here, I will take the other person home. I know the other person’s car, and its price is probably around thirty or forty thousand. Then I just disliked the Japanese car I drove, which costs 200,000 yuan, saying that Japanese cars are very cumbersome.

……

My friend knows that complaining is quite a business.

Why didn't the other party ask about his parents' family background? Perhaps it was because he knew this was his disadvantage?

It's not gentle and warms up slowly.

I haven't seen the house yet, but I think it's too old just because of the road.

I heard the phrase"It's far from where I work." I'm confused too. Does this mean I still want the boys' houses to be close to each other?

The statement that my income is about the same is actually quite a lot, but it sounds like you would only say it if your salary is two or three times higher than mine.

…… ps: Regarding teachers, I don’t know why there are so many"female teachers" in blind dates. Maybe it’s because there are more of them in third-tier cities.

And after getting to know these teachers, I found something in common - no matter whether they are staffed or not, whether they are training institutions or private schools, they all think that their jobs will be very stable. Obviously, apart from the staffing situation, they all think that their jobs will be very stable. It's a part-time job.

When talking to others, he always has a condescending and disciplinarian attitude (it reminds me of the attitude of the dean of disciplines in junior high school... and he seems to have acquiesced that his lower limit is a staffed male teacher.

Now I am a little afraid of the"teacher" professional women

……

Later, the intermediary responded to the other party saying that I was a very nice person, the good person card was +1, and asked me to work hard.

Then the other party did not contact me, probably waiting for me to come up. However, I am a decisive person. If I encounter this kind of situation, I will kill it immediately unless the other party takes the initiative to contact me.

……

Girl No. 02 is still a teacher.

English teacher, former training institution in Shanghai, came back to work here as an unemployed private middle school teacher, and her monthly salary after returning was about 6k.

He is older than me, 30, and his appearance is a bit more handicapped than the previous one. His cheekbones are quite high and he looks quite harsh.

It's actually a bit as sarcastic as I expected.

Fortunately, the shock of the first girl improved my defense.

It started with car rental money.

She didn't mention anything about her family background, so she assumed it was ordinary, but when the introducer later said that the situation was just like that, she had no advantages and her parents were unemployed.

He didn't dare to go out with me alone. After he chose to sit down with the middleman, he kept talking to the middleman about academic issues. He said that the teacher was very busy and the students admired me, so he almost didn't talk to me. Maybe you don’t like me?

Later, I took the initiative to initiate two chats, but they didn't bother me~

Maybe I don't have the same taste, but later I heard about the girl's situation from others, and I was quite lucky that I didn't fall in love with her... because the introducer knew it, and because the other party asked Really tall, I need height, good looks, income, and stability. And it seems that I recommended a male teacher for the establishment before, but I also disliked how little the teacher earned...

Sometimes I would like to have such a stable income. , with height, good looks, and income, he is matched with these unemployed female teachers.

……

Girl No. 03 is similar in age.

I graduated from a junior high school and am now a hotel management manager - well, I should say it's a banquet hall manager, the kind who is in charge of the banquet hall when others get married. A very average hotel.

His bone appearance is not good, his cheekbones are too high, which makes him look as sharp as the previous one. But he is very good at dressing up, covering it up with hair and makeup, and he can also cheat.

In the photo, it looks like her appearance score is quite high. In fact, it's quite a bit different, but she's still considered a pretty girl. Her cheekbones are too high.

Will smoke and drink.

I feel that because of his profession, this one is eloquent and quite cheerful. Compared with the treatment of the first two who looked at me with mother-like expressions, that is really much better.

He comes from an ordinary family and sells tobacco, wine and tea in his own home. I have a younger brother who is in college... I later found out from the introducer that the requirements were high, so I was able to get in. The other party seems to like me, but I don't think it's suitable and doesn't meet the requirements.

The requirements for finding a partner are pretty much the following: height above 160cm, age younger than me, high school education or above, avoid looking like a girl who is too young or too messy like a medical school.

He looks like an ordinary person, at least not as miserable as the second one. He has a crooked mouth and a sharp face

, but is reasonable and emotionally stable. Some people who can't stand it will go crazy without even knowing what pitfall they have stepped into.

Other parents are open-minded and supportive, and their looks and education are plus points, butI don’t insist on anything because I just wanted to find someone to live with.

For me, the most important thing is whether I can"live together". This is the result of my work.…

……

And that's not all. There are other examples from Xiaohongshu. I have never been on a blind date before, and I always thought it was made up. But I didn't expect that the clown was me. I went on a blind date to the point where I doubted my life.

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